Daddy Play - 6/16/09

[12:02] Dominic Rahja: greets all at the college of kink
[12:02] ***NZ***: pff
[12:02] Dominic Rahja: today quite an unusual subject
[12:02] ***ES*** sits pretty.
[12:03] Dominic Rahja: one that got its pro's and againsts
[12:03] ***ES*** loves the topic and listens.
[12:03] Dominic Rahja: theres been a lot about it in sl a couple of years ago
[12:04] Dominic Rahja: todays topic is about Daddy and little girl -play
[12:04] Dominic Rahja: I call it in this matter daddy and girl
[12:04] Dominic Rahja: buut it might as well be Mom and boy
[12:05] ***NZ***: Hi ***TT***
[12:05] Dominic Rahja: this kinda of role setting got nothing to do with any mind of kids involved
[12:05] ***TT***: hello!
[12:05] Dominic Rahja: but it has a lot to do with BDSM as one of its aspects
[12:06] Dominic Rahja: Id like to start this class with a story I found on the net
[12:06] ***LS***: hey A/all
[12:06] Dominic Rahja: its a story written in a blog
[12:06] ***cP***: hey ***NZ***
[12:06] Dominic Rahja: hey ***LS*** and ***cP***
[12:06] ***LS***: hey Sir Dom and Goddess
[12:06] ***cP***: Sir Dom good to see you again
[12:06] ***NZ***: smiles
[12:06] ***LS***: heya Tess :)
[12:06] Dominic Rahja: ok here it comes..
[12:06] Dominic Rahja: btw, class is in text
[12:07] Dominic Rahja: I would like to read the story in voice but maybe ppll miss out then
[12:07] Dominic Rahja: + it might be heard in the club
[12:07] Dominic Rahja: allright
[12:07] ***TT***: ttrelease
[12:07] ***cP***: still rezzing
[12:07] Dominic Rahja: Silently i creep into Daddy’s room, crawling into bed beside Him. i whisper “Daddy, i’m cold tonight, can i sleep with You?”
[12:08] Dominic Rahja: “My baby is cold tonight? Snuggle Me baby and I’ll warm you up.” Pulling me close to Him, the warmth of His body against mine. It feels good.
[12:08] Dominic Rahja: “you know baby, if you sleep with Daddy, what is Daddy’s first rule?”
[12:08] Dominic Rahja: “i have to sleep naked” i can’t look Him in the eye, shyness takes over. i take off my tshirt.
[12:08] Dominic Rahja: “Panties too baby…you know better” He tugs at them. i slip those off and quickly get under the covers.
[12:08] ***ES*** listens intently.
[12:08] Dominic Rahja: “you know baby, I will make you do naughty things.” Daddy says.
[12:09] Dominic Rahja: “What kind of things Daddy?”, i reply, all of a sudden feeling very shy, and i feel a butterfly jump in my tummy.
[12:09] Dominic Rahja: “Like play with Daddy’s penis”, He says.
[12:09] Dominic Rahja: i hide my face in His chest and whisper, “but i like playing with Daddy’s penis, is that bad?”
[12:09] ***SF***: gasps
[12:09] Dominic Rahja: “It is baby, but it’s our secret, right?” he breaths into my ear. i softly respond “yes Daddy, i’ve not told anyone.”
[12:10] Dominic Rahja: “Good girl.” He pulls me closer to Him, taking my hand and putting it on His penis.
[12:10] Dominic Rahja: i feel the heat rise to my cheeks. “Do it like this baby.” He takes my hand showing me how to stroke His cock.
[12:10] ***LR***: "Ok that just made my girls a little wett".
[12:10] Dominic Rahja: Taking my hand and wrapping it around His shaft, He shows me how to stroke Him as i feel how hard He is becoming.
[12:10] Dominic Rahja: i hide my face a bit. “No baby, look at Me.” i look up at Him, feeling my cheeks become red.
[12:10] Dominic Rahja: “How do you like Daddy’s cock?” i murmur a bit…”it’s nice Daddy.”
[12:11] Dominic Rahja: i feel His hand smack my ass. “Speak up when you answer Me baby.” “i like my Daddy’s cock, it feels nice in my hand, and it’s getting harder Daddy.”
[12:11] Dominic Rahja: “What does your Daddy expect you to do when you make it hard baby?”
[12:11] Dominic Rahja: Making sure i look at Him and speak loud enough for Him to hear me.
[12:11] Dominic Rahja: “Daddy likes me to put His penis in my mouth and suck on it.”
[12:11] Dominic Rahja: “mmmm My baby remembers well… Good girl.”
[12:12] Dominic Rahja: ok laffs
[12:12] Dominic Rahja: later I send you the whole story if you like
[12:12] Dominic Rahja: but!
[12:12] Dominic Rahja: Im sure some of you think: yeah good story
[12:12] Dominic Rahja: and some of you got mixed feelings
[12:12] Dominic Rahja: the point is
[12:13] Dominic Rahja: you might think we are dealing witha child involved here
[12:13] Dominic Rahja: but thats not the fact
[12:13] Dominic Rahja: He is called Daddy and she loves sitting on his lap.
[12:13] Dominic Rahja: She is his little girl and she loves the fact that her daddy will take care of her and will make sure that she stays a good little girl.
[12:14] Dominic Rahja: She is not under 16, 17, or even 18.
[12:14] Dominic Rahja: She is a fully-grown woman, consenting to a dynamic where her dominant takes the position of a father figure with some additional be***NZ***its.
[12:14] Dominic Rahja: They are not really father and daughter either, so there is no incest.
[12:14] Dominic Rahja: They are not breaking the law. They are simply living their truth.
[12:15] Dominic Rahja: She can continue to be her little girl.
[12:15] Dominic Rahja: She can run around like a teenager and be irresponsible sometimes.
[12:15] Dominic Rahja: She knows she will be punished, but she knows that her daddy will not hold it against her either.
[12:15] Dominic Rahja: The daddy figure commands and earns the respect of his little girl and they have a dominant/ submissive type arrangement too.
[12:16] Dominic Rahja: These are not typical sadists or masochists.
[12:16] Dominic Rahja: There will be a fair amount of spanking, paddling or flogging, but you would not find a lot of hard-core pain play in this group.
[12:16] Dominic Rahja: There will be a bigger focus on sexual intimacy though and terms for this are different from the rest of the BDSM world.
[12:16] Dominic Rahja: The genitalia will be named as if this really were a little girl and her daddy will call her all the other names that other dominants use for their submissives.
[12:17] Dominic Rahja: Although the average age of age players would be 10 to 14 in their "role", there are also prepubescent girls and "babies" in these relationships.
[12:17] Dominic Rahja: A daddy might want a "baby" and his little girl (of 20 and upwards) would be the baby for him.
[12:17] Dominic Rahja: She would wear diapers and be fed like a baby would be.
[12:17] ***PH***: I have a question: a question why that young?
[12:17] Dominic Rahja: It is a different type of fetish, as not all people would really get this type of play.
[12:18] ***PH***: Why 10-14?
[12:18] ***CB***: wait til the end ***PH***
[12:18] Dominic Rahja: In a minute I take questions and remarks
[12:18] ***PH***: sorry
[12:18] Dominic Rahja: There are those in the lifestyle who confuse this type of relationship.
[12:18] Dominic Rahja: It has been proven over and over again that this little understood dynamic is actually a way of nurturance and accepting love and care from another who is dominant and has everything daddy never did,
[12:19] Dominic Rahja: even if there always was a daddy fantasy.
[12:19] Dominic Rahja: allright
[12:19] Dominic Rahja: ***PH***
[12:19] Dominic Rahja: you asked why this young
[12:19] ***PH***: i can wait untill the end im sorry
[12:20] Dominic Rahja: realise that this kind of relationship has a lot to do with the need of being guided
[12:20] Dominic Rahja: like a young kid got that need
[12:20] Pirate Russell: @
[12:20] Dominic Rahja: but in many cases people didnt have that kind of guidence
[12:20] Dominic Rahja: the Dom and sub in this case agree on what age the girlplays
[12:21] Dominic Rahja: and that can be a very young age
[12:21] Dominic Rahja: even into diaper age
[12:21] ***ES*** ponders this.
[12:21] ***TR***: Is this D/s play non sexual then?
[12:21] Dominic Rahja: the fact she has to "cleaned" makes her feel aroused
[12:21] Dominic Rahja: yes its very sexual
[12:21] Pirate Russell: And also humiliating
[12:22] Dominic Rahja: without arousal they wouldnt play this kind
[12:22] Dominic Rahja: and yes its humiliating
[12:22] ***PH***: its not humiliating at all
[12:22] Dominic Rahja: ok Pirate
[12:22] Dominic Rahja: you had a question
[12:22] Pirate Russell: No a comment, actually
[12:22] ***ES*** listens to Pirate.
[12:22] Pirate Russell: Kinda dovetails into the "every girl marries her father" addage! And it is a nice... "downtime" activity if dom and sub are both into it.
[12:22] Dominic Rahja: ok
[12:22] ***TR***: very stereotype thing to say
[12:23] Pirate Russell: Yes, it is, that's why I called it an "addage"
[12:23] ***ES*** giggles
[12:23] Pirate Russell: I married 2 men VERY different from My dad
[12:23] Dominic Rahja: well it is a fact that many young women are not much interested in their partners age
[12:23] Dominic Rahja: they much more look at personality
[12:23] Dominic Rahja: most women crave protection
[12:24] ***PH***: in a way true
[12:24] Dominic Rahja: and thats whata father figure symbolizees
[12:24] Pirate Russell: I don't know who said it, but "Women give sex to get security, Men give Security to get sex"
[12:24] Dominic Rahja: hehe
[12:24] ***ES*** giggles
[12:24] ***ES*** looks around needing security.
[12:24] ***TR***: that line turns my stomach really
[12:24] Dominic Rahja: men and women have a totally different look upon the other sex
[12:25] Dominic Rahja: but yanno
[12:25] Dominic Rahja: they often say men only look at model kind of women
[12:25] Dominic Rahja: true but
[12:25] Dominic Rahja: they never marry them
[12:25] Dominic Rahja: hehe
[12:25] Dominic Rahja: but thats off topic
[12:26] ***PH***: let me tell you something - it is the same with smart girls; off topic too
[12:26] Dominic Rahja: many subs do seek the same thing in a Dom
[12:26] Dominic Rahja: hehe yes PuNnka
[12:26] ***PH***: all real subs?
[12:26] Dominic Rahja: protection
[12:26] Dominic Rahja: guidence
[12:26] Dominic Rahja: someone whos wise and in control
[12:27] ***PH***: subs to pretend to be subs just cause they can get laid are not subs but (mature island) bloody idiots
[12:27] ***PH***: in control is the word :)
[12:27] Dominic Rahja: what role she plays in this doesnt really matter
[12:27] ***PH***: me silent
[12:27] Dominic Rahja: but it always comes down to someone they can rely on
[12:27] Dominic Rahja: if this is a daddy
[12:27] Dominic Rahja: then lots of people frown
[12:27] Dominic Rahja: same as when someone would wear diapers
[12:28] Dominic Rahja: why on earth wouold someone shit tgheir pants
[12:28] Dominic Rahja: still
[12:28] ***ES*** giggles
[12:28] Dominic Rahja: its a feeling from deep inside
[12:28] ***ES*** is housebroken.
[12:28] ***NZ***: lol
[12:28] Dominic Rahja: being pampered might be the best word to describe it
[12:28] Dominic Rahja: all in all..
[12:29] Pirate Russell: Thank you for sharing, puppy, ***NZ***, got anything yo uwanna share wtih the group?
[12:29] Dominic Rahja: in a Dom/ sub re;ation we always see certain roles played
[12:29] ***LR***: hm release
[12:29] ***NZ***: uumm not at this time why Miss
[12:29] ***CB***: I have a comment
[12:29] Pirate Russell: Well, as I teach EVERY week. D/s is a relationship, and each relationship is as different as the people, and farm animals, in it!
[12:29] ***ES*** giggles
[12:29] Dominic Rahja: nods
[12:29] ***PH***: exactly and Dominic it is not gender based
[12:30] Pirate Russell: if this ain't for you, then ROCK ON!
[12:30] ***PH***: and can be reversed if you are strong enough
[12:30] ***TR***: So Dominic, in your view, is D/s always about "fragile female" seeking "strong alpha male" for protection? Coz I don't agree to that
[12:30] ***ES*** finds her binky and curls up.
[12:30] Dominic Rahja: didnt say that ***TR***
[12:30] Dominic Rahja: in the daddy and lil girl roleplay it is
[12:30] ***TR***: I asked if this is your view, I didn't imply you said so
[12:31] Dominic Rahja: no thats not My view
[12:31] ***TR***: okay, I understand
[12:31] Dominic Rahja: there are so many roleplay within a D/s relationsghip
[12:31] ***TR***: how about D/s without roleplay?
[12:31] Pirate Russell: Nor is it the view of any Dommes. My girls are WAY stronger than I am, they can give themselves to Me. THAT takes strength, not frailty.
[12:32] Dominic Rahja: indeed
[12:32] ***CB***: Can I say something?
[12:32] ***ES*** smiles proudly at Pirate's words.
[12:32] Dominic Rahja: fragikle isnt the word
[12:32] Dominic Rahja: but in some roleplay, playing fragile is part of it
[12:32] ***PH***: typoneese is almost acknowledged to be a language
[12:32] ***TR***: Good view Pirate
[12:33] Pirate Russell: The word is "submission" They submit themselvesto Me, and as My ibrew said yesterday, "it's an alignment of wills"
[12:33] ***TR***: it takes strength to truly (and not play it) lose your control and give it to someone
[12:33] ***PH***: they respect you that much to submit thats why i had issues with ages
[12:33] Dominic Rahja: within the Dady / lil girl play btw its not always the fragile girl that comes up front
[12:34] ***CB***: Even though the 2 are consenting to play the daddy/lil'girl thing...in their heads ..and it's in both their heads... the idea that the girl is a "little girl" is something I would be ashamed of admitting to playing. It smacks of peadophilea and I know it isn't but it's acting it out.
[12:34] Mon Mathy is Offline
[12:34] Dominic Rahja: I know ***CB***
[12:34] ***PH***: if 2 adults consent beause of the reason of rp that is ok
[12:34] Dominic Rahja: I think most of us are aware of that risk
[12:34] Pirate Russell: Every scene is not for every body.
[12:34] ***PH***: because that person by doing that turns you on
[12:35] Pirate Russell: look at ***ES***, she's puppified, but that's not for Me, so I just dont' do it
[12:35] Mon Mathy is Online
[12:35] ***ES*** woofs.
[12:35] ***ES*** is a baby puppy.
[12:35] Dominic Rahja: I think that when we walks the paths of sl, and we read daddy's lil girl in a tag, we shake head a bit
[12:35] ***LS***: puppified.....cool word btw
[12:35] Dominic Rahja: but we may not judge right away
[12:36] ***PH***: well idk really much about that i saw it worse
[12:36] Dominic Rahja: this kind of roleplay is part of bdsm
[12:36] ***TR***: As the french say, les gouts et les couleurs, ca ne se discute pas
[12:36] Dominic Rahja: means ***TR***?
[12:36] Pirate Russell: And how would the Americans say it, ***TR***?
[12:36] ***TR***: colors & tastes can't be discussed
[12:36] ***TR***: kinda :)
[12:36] ***PH***: they would censor it *
[12:36] Dominic Rahja: nods
[12:37] Pirate Russell: Yeah, that's WAY true!
[12:37] Pirate Russell: Both the saying, and the censor comment
[12:37] ***TR***: lol
[12:37] ***PH***: ^^
[12:37] Dominic Rahja: if you visit a bdsm club in rl..
[12:37] ***PH***: BDSM for me excercising in a rl means more that everyday respect
[12:37] Dominic Rahja: you might encounter this kind of relationships
[12:38] ***PH***: u cant see relationships in a club :)
[12:38] Dominic Rahja: we see with our own eyes its both adults involved
[12:38] Pirate Russell: Ok, ***PH***, activities
[12:38] Dominic Rahja: here in sl we are not always sure of that
[12:38] ***PH***: ^^
[12:38] ***PH***: u cant be sure of anything in sl
[12:38] ***PH***: thats why i respect avis :)
[12:39] Dominic Rahja: thats why we are afraid that if we tolerate this, we encourage pedophilia
[12:39] ***PH***: depends how you pack it
[12:39] Dominic Rahja: but by LL policy of not allowing this play, they hurted sincere bdsm adult roleplayers
[12:39] ***PH***: that is why i jumped out
[12:39] Pirate Russell: It could be an outlet for the latent pedophilia, that is better than an actual child, too!
[12:40] Dominic Rahja: nods thats true too Pirate
[12:40] ***TR***: yes; a question then - do the avi's actually represent 10-14yo or is it, even with "grown up" Avi's, merely a roleplay?
[12:40] Dominic Rahja: in rl you cant be the size of a child
[12:40] Dominic Rahja: in sl you can
[12:40] Pirate Russell: For some they could, and for some not
[12:40] ***PH***: agreed but please let all get it straight no under 18 and not willingly to participation any activities are involved here or anywhere else with BDSM content
[12:40] Dominic Rahja: you can look how u want
[12:41] ***LR***: Unlewss you know a good Wich Doctor.
[12:41] ***PH***: because sl is a sewer
[12:41] Dominic Rahja: hehe ***LR***
[12:41] ***PH***: here u have all
[12:41] ***LR***: THen you can shrink them
[12:41] ***TT***: bitty
[12:41] Pirate Russell: And that's part of what this bug-factory called SL is for! to do stuff you can't or wouldn't in RL
[12:41] ***CB***: bitty !!!!
[12:41] Pirate Russell: I can't fly!
[12:41] ***CB***: nooo
[12:41] ***TT***: bitty!!
[12:41] ***LR***: Not NOW little girl. You just fed Daddy
[12:42] Dominic Rahja: laffs
[12:42] ***NZ***: lol
[12:42] ***ES*** dun like bugs.
[12:42] ***AK*** giggles
[12:42] ***ES*** sniffs for cookies.
[12:42] ***PH***: ghawd food again !
[12:42] ***TT***: daddy doesn't want any more bitty? My bobies need to squirt really bad.
[12:42] Dominic Rahja: for the oldies amongst us..a couple of years sl came in the news with a scandal
[12:42] Dominic Rahja: we all know very well
[12:43] Dominic Rahja: a german reporter made notice about child abuse in sl
[12:43] ***PH***: no but really House of V had a good aspect on BDSM overall
[12:43] ***LR***: Ok so This brings a thought to mind. Why dose no one bat an Eyelash when she calls Me Daddy.
[12:43] Dominic Rahja: and within a couple of days this news spread over the world
[12:43] ***PH***: 1st of all that is Lindens issue THEY allowed it to happen
[12:43] ***LR***: But the Momoent I put my lips to her tit and Call her Miommy I'm a Pervert?
[12:43] ***PH***: if ever ^^
[12:43] ***PH***: no u are not because u know she is not
[12:43] Dominic Rahja: sure they have let it happen
[12:43] ***LR*** Griz
[12:44] ***AK*** giggles
[12:44] ***PH***: they cant really controll every human mind
[12:44] Dominic Rahja: but the reaction to it was completely insane
[12:44] ***TT***: be a good boy and suck on mummy's titty
[12:44] ***PH***: it was normal
[12:44] ***NZ***: LAFFS
[12:44] ***ES*** giggles
[12:44] Dominic Rahja: as soon sl gets bad news, then they just restrict it
[12:44] ***NZ***: sorry Master
[12:44] ***PH***: itl like having a umm pigs flu somewhere and uhoh we all are at dangeour :D
[12:44] Dominic Rahja: hehe
[12:45] ***PH***: u have to be smarter than regulative to have peace of your body soul and intelect :)
[12:45] ***ES*** nibbles on cookie from Mr ***cP***'s hand.
[12:45] Dominic Rahja: heres a reminder of sl reaction 2 years ago
[12:45] ***PH***: im my point of view being a sub means i totally trust and respect -not fear my dom
[12:46] Dominic Rahja: Clarification of Policy Disallowing "Ageplay"
Posted by Kend Linden on Nov 14, 2007 12:10:57 AM
[12:46] ***PH***: i could fear him if i do something wrong
[12:46] Dominic Rahja: We’ve had a number of questions from Residents regarding Second Life’s policy regarding sexual “ageplay,” i.e., depictions of or engagement in sexualized conduct with avatars that resemble children.
[12:46] ***PH***: but boundaries are within trust
[12:46] ***PH***: and respect
[12:46] Dominic Rahja: This practice has been disallowed in recognition of our Community Standards, complaints from Residents, and international laws, so it’s important to understand the definitions.
[12:46] Dominic Rahja: Under our Community Standards policy, real-life images, avatar portrayals, and other depictions of sexual or lewd acts involving or appearing to involve children or minors are not allowed within Second Life.
[12:47] Dominic Rahja: When detected, individuals and groups promoting or providing such content and activities will be subject to sanctions, which may include termination of accounts, closure of groups, removal of content, and loss of land or access to land.
[12:47] Dominic Rahja: etc.
[12:47] ***TR***: well SL rules is SL rules
[12:47] Dominic Rahja: since then every sim got a height meter]
[12:47] ***TR***: You are a guest here so...
[12:47] ***TR***: but yeah
[12:47] ***TR***: most avi' are oversized here
[12:48] Dominic Rahja: when you are a short girl ( looks at ***NZ***)
[12:48] ***TR***: if you are 1m70 you look like a kid
[12:48] Dominic Rahja: hehe
[12:48] Dominic Rahja: then your doomed
[12:48] ***LS***: lol
[12:48] ***TR***: Yes this actually happened
[12:48] ***TR***: bunny avi
[12:48] Dominic Rahja: sim owners are paranoid cause of sl threats
[12:48] ***TR***: removed from a club for being "a child"
[12:48] ***NZ***: hey lol i cant help im only 5 foot real life lol
[12:48] ***LS***: whaha
[12:49] ***LS***: aw
[12:49] Dominic Rahja: and they have banned residents and deleted sims cause of it
[12:49] ***TR***: in a cartoon world, and this is, what is to be defined a child?
[12:49] ***TR***: how about japanese manga avi's?
[12:49] ***LS***: gotta go, take care A/all
[12:49] ***TR***: they are ageless
[12:49] ***NZ*** spanks ***LS***'s ass
[12:49] Dominic Rahja: same think I think ***TR***
[12:49] Dominic Rahja: thing
[12:49] ***ES*** giggles
[12:49] ***LS***: ouch...
[12:49] ***PH***: they are cuuute!
[12:49] Dominic Rahja: c ya ***LS***
[12:50] ***LS***: bye Sir Dom, bye Goddess :)
[12:50] ***NZ***: bye bad boy
[12:50] Dominic Rahja: but as long someone isnty involved in sexual acts it should be ok
[12:50] Pirate Russell: My girl ibrew has been asked to leave from several clubs, and she has this to pass on to the owners. Dom may I quote some?
[12:50] ***CB***: no it's not right that grown man ava looks good having sex with a child avi
[12:50] ***PH***: ohhh look i was kicked out of GOL having a bunny avatar :)
[12:50] Dominic Rahja: we got tiny's here
[12:50] Pirate Russell: I've included a couple of textures containing images i took after being thrown out of your club. If you will take the time to look at them, you will see there are some obvious differences between a normal, adult avatar and a child avatar.
[12:51] Dominic Rahja: but as soon a sim owner sees a lil girl in a pink dress and blond curled hair
[12:51] Dominic Rahja: then they get paranoid
[12:51] Pirate Russell: The adult has a natural shape, the child avatar is somewhat distorted because of the need to set shape parameters beyond what was expected when Second Life was developed
[12:51] ***PH***: for sl i just dont care because still sim owners are the masters :)
[12:51] Pirate Russell: Note in particular the difference in chest shape and breast size and shapes. The child avatar has a more barrel shape to the chest, and in an attempt to disguise the existance of breasts, they are flattened and deformed. The feet/leg/torso/head proportions are also quite different in the child avatar.
[12:51] ***TR***: that's the problem with SL - there is rules, but no "judge" or "jury" - just AR's and off you go
[12:51] Pirate Russell: Now i am aware that my avatar has a rather flat butt and not the typical 54EEEEE bust, but, if you look closely, you can tell that it is definetly not a child avatar.
[12:51] Pirate Russell: Unquote
[12:51] ***PH***: if i for example wouldnt like red haired guys and uh i would pay for a sim i would for sure excercise my belief
[12:52] ***PH***: well check me out im normal to every human proportion :)
[12:52] Pirate Russell: And then we're asked to go... he he
[12:52] ***PH***: idk anymore :)
[12:52] Pirate Russell: Me to, I'm 5'6" in RL and SL
[12:52] Dominic Rahja: Im glad I got an avatar with chest hair
[12:52] ***PH***: i just find ppl that i care what they are saying
[12:52] Dominic Rahja: hahaaa
[12:52] ***PH***: i <3 u
[12:52] ***PH***: can i T?
[12:52] ***ES*** hugs Pirate.
[12:52] ***ES*** claps paws for Dominic.
[12:52] Dominic Rahja: laffs
[12:52] Dominic Rahja: anyway
[12:53] Pirate Russell is no longer going the "Amazon Way"
[12:53] Dominic Rahja: I believe that because of this hype in sl, people got afraid of the daddy/ girl roleplay
[12:53] Dominic Rahja: its looked upon as an unlawful act
[12:54] ***ES*** growls at lag.
[12:54] Dominic Rahja: but in reality. IT IS a bdsm aspect
[12:54] ***PH***: and it is consent !
[12:54] Dominic Rahja: as long of course adults are involved and no real children
[12:54] Dominic Rahja: yes its in consent
[12:54] ***PH***: that was my point before
[12:54] Pirate Russell claps for freedom, and choice!
[12:54] ***PH***: or a q :)
[12:55] ***TR***: turn and twist as you like, SL isn't freedom, it's a business
[12:55] ***PH***: cause i like my daddy
[12:55] Dominic Rahja: but thats always a fact
[12:55] ***TR***: goverened by state law
[12:55] ***TR***: and we are all guests to them
[12:55] ***TR***: so yup we need to obey the rules
[12:55] ***TR***: until SL moves to sealand :p
[12:55] ***PH***: so u wont be my daddy anymore?
[12:55] Dominic Rahja: hehe
[12:55] ***PH*** sad
[12:55] ***TR***: shup you, no choco tonight
[12:55] ***ES*** whimpers.
[12:55] ***PH***: im really sad now :(
[12:56] Dominic Rahja: you know what I wonder about?
[12:56] ***ES*** hugs ***PH***
[12:56] ***PH***: can oyu?
[12:56] ***ES*** wants her to smile.
[12:56] ***PH***: cant :(
[12:56] Dominic Rahja: if those who were into this rp before sl disallowed it, still do
[12:56] ***PH***: oh hell yes
[12:56] Dominic Rahja: or are afraid some tattler will prosecute them
[12:57] ***PH***: ^^
[12:57] ***PH***: nah
[12:57] ***TR*** will bring Punpun green cote dor
[12:57] ***NZ***: throws a bone an some catnip
[12:57] ***PH***: iii i did good - i guess
[12:57] ***ES*** thinks everything takes some level of trust.
[12:57] ***PH***: nom!
[12:57] ***ES*** does not talk about Daddy play to just anybody.
[12:57] ***PH***: it is the same here
[12:57] ***ES*** giggles
[12:57] ***PH***: rl gouverment or sl gouverment
[12:57] Dominic Rahja: in any way, I wouldnt mind putting a pacifier in My ***NZ***s lil mouth
[12:57] ***PH***: i dont agree wit either
[12:58] Dominic Rahja: keeps her still
[12:58] ***PH***: but still thrive
[12:58] Dominic Rahja: hehe
[12:58] ***NZ***: wwwhhaaa
[12:58] Dominic Rahja: hey
[12:58] ***ES*** sucks on her bink proudly.
[12:58] ***ES*** does not smile until ***PH*** does.
[12:58] ***NZ***: tugs at your zipper
[12:58] Dominic Rahja: the notecard I selected, including the whole story..
[12:59] ***PH***: u should get here a sub that loves it to explain why does he/she love it :)
[12:59] ***PH***: maybe that would unveil some secrets :)
[12:59] Dominic Rahja: I'll send that to you if interested
[12:59] ***PH***: no!
[12:59] ***ES*** wants.
[12:59] ***PH***: dats mine!
[12:59] Dominic Rahja: yes true PuNnka
[12:59] Pirate Russell: And I'll add it to the blog once I get caught up!
[12:59] ***PH***: can i swap sub dom :)
[12:59] ***PH***: so im not the right one
[12:59] Pirate Russell: or more accurately, AS I get caught up
[12:59] Dominic Rahja: ok. Ill give it to Pirate
[13:00] Dominic Rahja: as I look around class..
[13:00] Dominic Rahja: I knew this subject would feed you for a reaction
[13:00] Dominic Rahja: still its a good subject to think about
[13:00] Dominic Rahja: and maybe
[13:00] Dominic Rahja: I hope
[13:01] Dominic Rahja: you wont judge ppl into such play too fast
[13:01] Dominic Rahja: smiles
[13:01] Dominic Rahja: thanks all for attending this college of kink

***Story***
Silently i creep into Daddy’s room, crawling into bed beside Him. i whisper “Daddy, i’m cold tonight, can i sleep with You?” “My baby is cold tonight? Snuggle Me baby and I’ll warm you up.” Pulling me close to Him, the warmth of His body against mine. It feels good.
“you know baby, if you sleep with Daddy, what is Daddy’s first rule?”
“i have to sleep naked” i can’t look Him in the eye, shyness takes over. i take off my tshirt.
“Panties too baby…you know better” He tugs at them. i slip those off and quickly get under the covers.
“you know baby, I will make you do naughty things.” Daddy says. “What kind of things Daddy?”, i reply, all of a sudden feeling very shy, and i feel a butterfly jump in my tummy.
“Like play with Daddy’s penis”, He says. i hide my face in His chest and whisper, “but i like playing with Daddy’s penis, is that bad?”
“It is baby, but it’s our secret, right?” he breaths into my ear. i softly respond “yes Daddy, i’ve not told anyone.” “Good girl.”
He pulls me closer to Him, taking my hand and putting it on His penis. i feel the heat rise to my cheeks. “Do it like this baby.” He takes my hand showing me how to stroke His cock. Taking my hand and wrapping it around His shaft, He shows me how to stroke Him as i feel how hard He is becoming.
i hide my face a bit. “No baby, look at Me.” i look up at Him, feeling my cheeks become red. “How do you like Daddy’s cock?” i murmur a bit…”it’s nice Daddy.” i feel His hand smack my ass. “Speak up when you answer Me baby.” “i like my Daddy’s cock, it feels nice in my hand, and it’s getting harder Daddy.”
“What does your Daddy expect you to do when you make it hard baby?” Making sure i look at Him and speak loud enough for Him to hear me. “Daddy likes me to put His penis in my mouth and suck on it.” “mmmm My baby remembers well… Good girl.”
i start to move to do this but Daddy pushes me back on the bed. “Not yet baby, I’m going to make you beg to suck Daddy’s cock tonight.” He begins to pull at my nipples. It hurts a bit, but instantly i feel a stirring and i don’t want Him to stop. He kisses me and moves to my neck, biting me. His hand starts to move down my tummy.
“Has my baby been good and not touched herself?” my mind races, i think back over the last few days. “No Daddy, You told me i couldn’t.” His hand reaches my smooth pussy. “I see my baby has been keeping My pussy, just as Daddy likes it.” He moves His mouth down to my nipples and sucks one in, biting it. i jump a bit from His teeth around my nipple. His fingers finding His sweet pussy wet.
“My baby is getting excited.” i draw in my breath as He plunges His fingers inside me, and He rubs my clit with His thumb. A moan escapes my lips. His fingers probing, His teeth finds my nipple again. He nibbles on it, stopping short to suck in my nipple. my body jumps.
His fingers inside me, working His magic, my body curving underneath His hands. Daddy pulls back, slaps the inside of my thighs, “Open them wider”, grabbing a leg and opening them wider. “baby, do you know what this is right here?” His fingers are back inside me, stroking deep, upward. i shake my head no. “It’s what is called a G-spot, hows does it feel baby?” escaping my lips, in a soft voice full of lust now…”it feels really good Daddy.”… breathless.. i feel the wetness between my legs, Daddy plays me like His guitar. Strumming me, i feel His every chord deep in my soul. i reach for His cock. i feel how hard it is.
“Does baby want something?” i am lost in His fingers, His voice, the heat of His body next to mine. i whimper, i am putty in His hands. “What was that baby?” “i want to explode Daddy” “you mean you want to cum baby?” “oh yes Daddy, please may i?” “Yes baby, cum for your Daddy.” i release and explode with His fingers inside me, my pussy contracting around them.
i can’t take it, i crave to have Him inside me now. “Daddy please can i suck on Your cock?” His fingers feel like they are going deeper inside me, the heat i feel, i am consumed, and more than anything i want His cock in my mouth. i want to feel how hard it is, and i want to take Him deep into my mouth. “What’s that baby?” “please please Daddy i need to have Your cock in my mouth.” “mmmm My baby sounds hungry.”
Daddy lets me go, lays back and i immediately get down on my knees, taking His cock into my hands. i stick out my tongue and lightly lick the head of His cock. “mmmm baby is gonna tease me a bit? is that wise?” i softly suck on the head of His cock. He grabs me and pulls me over on top of Him. “I need to taste that lil sweet pussy of mine” Pulling my hips down onto His face. “Daddy loves when His baby lays on top of Him.” He pulls my pussy down onto His mouth, as His tongue starts to lick at my juices. i feel like a puddle.
i take His cock deep in my mouth as i feel His tongue plunge deep into my pussy. i feel my body start to tense again, and i can’t hold still. His tongue attacks my clit, and i feel a bolt go through me and i explode on His tongue. He starts licking my pussy up again. Sucking His cock, taking Him deeper inside, i swirl my tongue around His shaft. Daddy has trained me well, i know how He loves His cock sucked by His baby. Daddy is fucking me with His tongue. i can’t help but meet every thrust of His tongue.
i feel His fingers move, opening and exploring me. “What’s this baby?” i feel His fingers pressing, opening me… extremely shy now. i feel so small. Breathlessly i say…”it’s my ass Daddy.” “Whose ass?” i feel His hand come down on it. “It’s Your ass Daddy, You own it.” “What can Daddy do with that ass?” “Anything He wants” “That’s right and what does Daddy like to do with it?” i feel His hand spank it again. i feel myself getting wetter.
“Daddy likes to put His fingers in it, sometimes His tongue and He likes to put His cock in it, and fuck it.” “What does my baby like?” i reply softly, so shy when He asks me questions like this. “i like when You do all of those things Daddy.” “My baby is a naughty girl, good girl.” i feel His fingers go inside me again, getting them wet as He turns us onto our sides, He opens my legs wider, and i feel His finger start to enter my ass. i almost purr at this, i take His cock in deeper then. Sucking His cock, using my tongue, moving my hand with mouth, His cock in and out of my mouth.
His mouth finds my clit and sucks it in, swirling His tongue around, it’s like electricity going through my body. His finger fucking my ass. i can’t take it..”Daddy.. i’m going to cum..” “Give it to Me baby, i want it.” His pace goes faster and He is pulling at my clit. i am in a frenzy now as i explode and my body shivers and shakes. i say with urgency “Fuck me Daddy.” “My baby need fucking?” “God yes Daddy, i need Your cock inside me.”
Daddy flips me onto my back, pulling me to the end of the bed, throwing my legs over His shoulders, pulling my hips to the edge. He enters me, deep, taking Him all in. He leans forward, grabbing my hands pulling them above my head. i am pinned under Him as He is driving His cock deep inside me.
“Is this what you needed?” “Yes Daddy.” “you like fucking baby?” “Yes i do Daddy.” He is looking into my eyes. “How come?” i still feel bashful when He asks me these things. “Because it feels good Daddy.” “And you’re a naughty girl, aren’t you baby.” “Yes Daddy, i’m a naughty girl.” Daddy starts fucking me harder, deeper. my knees are touching my shoulders and my legs are bent up over His shoulders and He has my hands pinned above my head. i can’t move and i’m on fire.
He leans down sucks on my ear and begins to bite me, this sends me over the edge. i begin to cum and Daddy pumps His hard cock into me. He pulls out of me, releasing me and again flips me onto my stomach pulls my ass in the air, i feel something cool run down my ass. “Daddy’s gonna fuck His ass now.” i feel the head of His cock start to enter me. Daddy is slow and gentle and i relax as He strokes my back. He enters me more and i feel myself relax around Him, taking Him in. He goes deeper, until He fills me up. He holds me there, stroking my back. He begins to move inside me. Fucking my ass. He reaches up and grabs my long ponytail. and starts fucking me good.
“baby, reach down and play with your clit.” i do as i am told. “Feel good baby.” Again, i feel so shy. Because yes i love this, i love this closeness i feel with Him, and yet i feel so shy admitting it. “Yes Daddy.” i can’t seem to say anything more, as i feel myself getting ready to cum again. “I’m going to cum in this ass baby… right… now.” i feel Daddy fill me up, and i cum with Him. Feeling my ass clench around His cock. He leans down on top of me. Kissing my neck and back. Holding me. He says in my ear. “I love when my baby spends the night.”

He is called Daddy and she loves sitting on his lap. She is his little girl and she loves the fact that her daddy will take care of her and will make sure that she stays a good little girl. She is not under 16, 17, or even 18. She is a fully-grown woman, consenting to a dynamic where her dominant takes the position of a father figure with some additional benefits. They are not really father and daughter either, so there is no incest. They are not breaking the law. They are simply living their truth. She can continue to be her little girl. She can run around like a teenager and be irresponsible sometimes. She knows she will be punished, but she knows that her daddy will not hold it against her either.

The daddy figure commands and earns the respect of his little girl and they have a dominant/ submissive type arrangement too. These are not typical sadists or masochists. There will be a fair amount of spanking, paddling or flogging, but you would not find a lot of hard-core pain play in this group. There will be a bigger focus on sexual intimacy though and terms for this are different from the rest of the BDSM world. The genitalia will be named as if this really were a little girl and her daddy will call her all the other names that other dominants use for their submissives.

Although the average age of age players would be 10 to 14 in their "role", there are also prepubescent girls and "babies" in these relationships. A daddy might want a "baby" and his little girl (of 20 and upwards) would be the baby for him. She would wear diapers and be fed like a baby would be. It is a different type of fetish, as not all people would really get this type of play. There are those in the lifestyle who confuse this type of relationship. It has been proven over and over again that this little understood dynamic is actually a way of nurturance and accepting love and care from another who is dominant and has everything daddy never did, even if there always was a daddy fantasy.

Clarification of Policy Disallowing "Ageplay"
Posted by Kend Linden on Nov 14, 2007 12:10:57 AM
We’ve had a number of questions from Residents regarding Second Life’s policy regarding sexual “ageplay,” i.e., depictions of or engagement in sexualized conduct with avatars that resemble children. This practice has been disallowed in recognition of our Community Standards, complaints from Residents, and international laws, so it’s important to understand the definitions.
Under our Community Standards policy, real-life images, avatar portrayals, and other depictions of sexual or lewd acts involving or appearing to involve children or minors are not allowed within Second Life. When detected, individuals and groups promoting or providing such content and activities will be subject to sanctions, which may include termination of accounts, closure of groups, removal of content, and loss of land or access to land.
There are three key aspects, which are in breach of the Community Standards:
(1) participation by Residents in lewd or sexual acts in which one or more of the avatars appears to represent minors (or the depiction of such acts in images, video, textures, or text) is a violation of the Community Standards;
(2) promoting or catering to such behavior or representations violates our Community Standards. For instance, the placement of avatars appearing to represent minors in proximity to “sex beds” or other sexualized graphics, objects, or scripts, would violate our Community Standards, as would the placement of sexualized “pose balls” or other content in areas depicting playgrounds or children’s spaces;
(3) the graphic depiction of children in a sexual or lewd manner violates our Community Standards.
We understand that in some cases there may be an element of subjectivity as to whether an avatar (or other image) appears to be a minor. Objective factors which will be used to decide include whether an avatar has child-like facial features, is sized as a child, has clothing or accessories generally associated with children, and whether, based on the circumstances, an avatar is speaking or acting like a child (e.g. “My Mommy says…”).
If you are in doubt as to whether an activity may be interpreted as ageplay, we request you err on the side of caution and desist. Please note that some countries’ laws may impose penalties for graphics, drawings or anime that resemble child pornography, even where no children have been involved.
Linden Lab reserves the right to immediately terminate the accounts of Residents who violate these standards.
Of course, any images, chat or other conduct which leads us to believe actual minor children are involved will lead to swift action, including reporting to the appropriate authorities.
Please note it does not violate this policy merely to have a child-like avatar. It is not our intent to banish child-like avatars in and of themselves.


Source: BBC News, 9th May 2007, 10:35 GMT
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/technology/6638331.stm?ls
Second Life is being investigated by German police following allegations that some members are trading child abuse images in the online world.
The investigation follows a report by a German TV news programme which uncovered the trading group and members who pay for sex with virtual children.
The police are now trying to identify the Second Life members involved.
Linden Lab, the creator of Second Life, said it would help identify users and pass on details to prosecutors.
The investigation was carried out by Nick Schader from the Report Mainz news programme who is also a member of Second Life.
Mr Schader was asked to pay to attend meetings where virtual and real child pornography was being shown.
Members of this group also offered to put him in touch with traders of real child pornography.
The investigation also uncovered so called "age play" groups that revolve around the abuse of virtual children.
Information gathered during the report was passed to the prosecutor's office in Halle who said it hoped to track down the German Second Life user who shared the images of virtual child pornography.
Peter Vogt, the prosecutor in the Halle, told the Deutsche Presse-Agentur agency: "I assume we are going to catch this user fairly quickly."
Under Germany law possession of "virtual" child pornography is punishable by up to three years in jail.