[2009/04/03 12:19] Pirate Russell: For any that need to leave early, all transcripts can be found at http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com
[2009/04/03 12:19] Pirate Russell: Franklin Veaux's Journal...the color of television, tuned to a dead channel. by Tacet
[2009/04/03 12:19] Pirate Russell: How to Have a Happy Relationship
[2009/04/03 12:19] Pirate Russell: It seems to me that a lot of basic ideas behind happy, healthy relationships are often considered “advanced,” and seem to take rather a lot more time to learn than perhaps they really ought to.
[2009/04/03 12:19] Pirate Russell: At least, they sometimes did for your humble scribe. Ahem.
[2009/04/03 12:20] ***SM***: i blame rock and roll music
[2009/04/03 12:20] still trips with the same stone over and over again...
[2009/04/03 12:20] Pirate Russell: Hello, ***WW***, welcome to The College of Kink, Pirate's Cove Campus
[2009/04/03 12:20] Pirate Russell: So, in the interests of spreading the wealth (because experience is the best teacher, but sometimes the tuition is very high), I present Relationship Ideas That Should Be Obvious But Aren’t.
[2009/04/03 12:20] ***WW***: Pirate greetings
[2009/04/03 12:21] Pirate Russell: Please take a seat when you can
[2009/04/03 12:21] Pirate Russell: ~You can’t expect to have what you want if you don’t ask for what you want.
[2009/04/03 12:21] Pirate Russell: This is the KEY to ALL COMMUNICATION
[2009/04/03 12:21] Pirate Russell: This is arguably one of the most basic rules for all of life, yet it’s surprising how often we forget.
[2009/04/03 12:22] Pirate Russell: There’s almost no greater recipe for emotional turmoil then wanting something or harboring some expectation, not telling anyone about it, and then not getting it.
[2009/04/03 12:22] Pirate Russell: Next time you get really, really upset about some desire or expectation not being met, stop and ask yourself: “Did I actually let the people around me know about it?”
[2009/04/03 12:22] Pirate Russell: Here’s a tip: Dropping hints about what you want doesn’t count. Neither does wishing really hard. Nor waiting for the folks around you to become telepathic.
[2009/04/03 12:22] Pirate Russell: ~If all of your relationships go pear-shaped in the same exact way and end badly in the same exact way, then maybe it’s because of something you’re doing.
[2009/04/03 12:23] Pirate Russell: Seriously. The one common element in all your relationship failures is you. Someone cheat on you? Well, that sucks, but it happens. Every single person you ever date in your life cheat on you? You’re attracted to folks who cheat.
[2009/04/03 12:23] Pirate Russell: If all of your relationships end the same way, maybe it’s time to step back and take a good, hard look at the kinds of folks you’re attracted to.
[2009/04/03 12:23] Pirate Russell: ~If you find that sex always becomes boring after a while in all your relationships, maybe it’s because you’re choosing to let it.
[2009/04/03 12:24] Pirate Russell: There’s a lot of fun you can have in (and out) of the bedroom.
[2009/04/03 12:24] Pirate Russell: The total range of the human sexual experience is breathtaking–so much so that if you lived to be a thousand years old and did something different in bed every night for that entire thousand years, you’d still never have time to do it all. Seriously.
[2009/04/03 12:24] Pirate Russell: If you find that your sex life keeps getting stuck in a rut, maybe it’s time to explore something new.
[2009/04/03 12:24] Pirate Russell: A sure way to make yourself crazy and have a boring sex life is to keep worrying about whether trying something new would be “too weird.”
[2009/04/03 12:25] Pirate Russell: The expression “That’s too weird” has done more to advance the cause of boring sex than all the world’s religions combined.
[2009/04/03 12:25] ***AG***: lol
[2009/04/03 12:25] ***SF***: lol
[2009/04/03 12:25] Pirate Russell: ~Going into a relationship with the expectation that you can get your partner to change is quite likely to end in tears.
[2009/04/03 12:25] Pirate Russell: Now, don’t get me wrong–people can and do change. In fact, change is the one constant in life. I’m not the person I was five years ago, and if you’re doing this properly, you aren’t either.
[2009/04/03 12:26] Pirate Russell: But expecting that a person will change in the ways that you want him to, because you want him to, is setting yourself up for suck and fail. Fixer-upper relationships usually don’t work.
[2009/04/03 12:26] Pirate Russell: And if you go into things thinking “Oh, I can fix him!” you just might find your ship of enthusiasm foundering on the shoals of the fact that maybe he likes being the way he is.
[2009/04/03 12:26] Pirate Russell: A relationship in which you say “This relationship is absolutely wonderful except for…” is not absolutely wonderful. Especially when the part that comes after the “except for…” is something so horrifying it’d make most folks run for the hill
[2009/04/03 12:26] Pirate Russell: This relationship is wonderful except for the fact that we’re completely incompatible in bed.
[2009/04/03 12:27] Pirate Russell: This relationship is wonderful except for the fact that she keeps forgetting to take her meds.
[2009/04/03 12:27] Pirate Russell: This relationship is wonderful except for the fact that he can’t talk honestly about his feelings.
[2009/04/03 12:27] ***SF***: >_<
[2009/04/03 12:27] ***SF***: ^about the meds...
[2009/04/03 12:27] Pirate Russell: Look out!
[2009/04/03 12:27] Pirate Russell: For maximum effect, try combining “this relationship is wonderful except for…” with “…but I know I can change him” and double your suck!
[2009/04/03 12:27] ***SM***:
[2009/04/03 12:27] Pirate Russell: ~A partner who is kind to you but not kind to the waitress isn’t a kind person.
[2009/04/03 12:28] Pirate Russell: Seriously. The fact that he’s kind to you might just mean that he wants something from you. (Or that you’re not his property…yet.
[2009/04/03 12:28] Pirate Russell: Marry that person who’s nice to you but not nice to the waitress and you might just find that once the ring is on your finger, he may start treating you like the waitress. Or worse.)
[2009/04/03 12:28] Pirate Russell: The way a person treats the folks around him reveals a lot about his true self. Pay attention.
[2009/04/03 12:28] Pirate Russell: ~It is possible to deeply, profoundly, genuinely, truly love someone, and yet that person might still not be a good partner for you.
[2009/04/03 12:29] Pirate Russell: It takes more than love to make a relationship work.
[2009/04/03 12:29] Pirate Russell: A person you love, but who is incompatible with you, or who lacks good relationship skills, or who can’t communicate with you, is not going to make for a functional, healthy relationship.
[2009/04/03 12:29] ***SF*** has been that unsuitable partner more than once... it sucks for both parts..
[2009/04/03 12:29] Pirate Russell: Love and five bucks will get you a cup of coffee. Or, to put it more scientifically, love is necessary but not sufficient, no matter how many Disney movies and romantic comedies say otherwise.
[2009/04/03 12:30] Pirate Russell: Though really, if you’re taking your cues on relationship from Disney movies and romantic comedies, there’s probably little that I or anyone else can do.
[2009/04/03 12:30] Pirate Russell: ~Find a way to build a friendship with that person that honors and respects that love without trying to turn it into something unsustainable and you’ll do okay. And as a corollary:
[2009/04/03 12:30] Pirate Russell: Being in love with someone doesn’t mean you HAVE to be in a relationship with that person.
[2009/04/03 12:31] Pirate Russell: Case in point... I'm in LOVE with Allyson Hannigan, from Buffy and How I Met Your Mother, but there's NO relationchip! he he
[2009/04/03 12:31] Pirate Russell: Seriously. You have a choice. You can love someone, and acknowledge that love, and still choose not to be romantically involved with that person.
[2009/04/03 12:31] ***SF***: lol
[2009/04/03 12:31] Pirate Russell: That’s one of the cool things about being a human being You get to choose.
[2009/04/03 12:31] ***WW***: there is oe theyjust dont kno it:)
[2009/04/03 12:31] Pirate Russell: You can’t have intimacy without sharing. If you spend your time hiding things from your partner, or worrying about whether or not you can share something with your partner, you’re not going to have an intimate relationship.
[2009/04/03 12:31] ***WW***: one*
[2009/04/03 12:32] Pirate Russell: True, true.... :sighs
[2009/04/03 12:32] Pirate Russell: Everything you conceal from your partner undermines the foundation of intimacy upon which relationships are built.
[2009/04/03 12:32] Pirate Russell: No, that doesn’t mean telling your partner every time you take a dump (and why is it that folks who don’t cotton to sharing and openness always reach for that example?).
[2009/04/03 12:32] ***SM***: "everything you know about love comes from pop songs and fairy tails" <- should be a song
[2009/04/03 12:32] Pirate Russell: But it does mean sharing everything that’s important, significant, or meaningful. Even if it’s uncomfortable.
[2009/04/03 12:33] Pirate Russell has learned from the School of Hard Knocks, and Tacit in this piece is DEAD ON!
[2009/04/03 12:33] Pirate Russell: Especially if it’s uncomfortable, because the fact that it’s uncomfortable probably means there’s something important lurking in there. Communication ain’t for sissies.
[2009/04/03 12:33] Pirate Russell: What you get out depends on what you put in. Approach every new partner with fear and suspicion, and you’ll have fearful, suspicious partners.
[2009/04/03 12:33] ***SF*** has scars from learning about love.
[2009/04/03 12:33] Pirate Russell: Te best way to have a friend is to be a friend.
[2009/04/03 12:33] Pirate Russell: The best way to have people around you who have compassion and integrity is to be a person with compassion and integrity.
[2009/04/03 12:34] Pirate Russell: The best way to fill your life with suck and fail is to fill other people’s lives with suck and fail.
[2009/04/03 12:34] Pirate Russell: You know that saying “opposites attract”? It’s rubbish. Honest people look for, and attract, other honest people.
[2009/04/03 12:34] ***SM***: "be the change you wish to see in the world" <- gandhi
[2009/04/03 12:34] Pirate Russell: See. 10,000 Gandi's can't be wrong
[2009/04/03 12:34] Pirate Russell: ~A person who has cheated on someone else to be with you cannot be trusted not to cheat on you to be with someone else.
[2009/04/03 12:34] ***SF*** wonders if she ahs a quote book hiding...
[2009/04/03 12:34] ***SF***: *has
[2009/04/03 12:34] Pirate Russell: No, you’re not different.
[2009/04/03 12:35] Pirate Russell: You’re not a rare and unique flower, so totally set apart from that shrill, obnoxious harpy that he’s with right now.
[2009/04/03 12:35] ***SM***: :p
[2009/04/03 12:35] Pirate Russell: You know how he tells you that you’re so much better than that monster he’s hooked up with?
[2009/04/03 12:35] Pirate Russell: I bet he says the same thing about you to the other person he’s shagging. You know, the one that neither you nor his other partner knows about.
[2009/04/03 12:35] Pirate Russell: ~Be wary of a person who trashes all their exes in front of you, for someday you’ll likely be on that list yourself.
[2009/04/03 12:35] Pirate Russell: You know that person with the long list of former partners, all of whom were shrill, obnoxious harpies?
[2009/04/03 12:36] Pirate Russell: Does something seem odd about that list to you?
[2009/04/03 12:36] Pirate Russell: Best case scenario, it means he keeps getting involved with the same sorts of people again and again, and doesn’t learn anything from any of those experiences.
[2009/04/03 12:36] ***SM*** loves all her exes madly...
[2009/04/03 12:36] Pirate Russell: What do you reckon that says about you?
[2009/04/03 12:36] Pirate Russell does in SL, too.. RL, he's an arse, and can go piss up a rope!
[2009/04/03 12:36] Pirate Russell: Worst case scenario, it’s a clear sign of someone who doesn’t take responsibility for his own part in all those past train wrecks.
[2009/04/03 12:36] ***SF***: either you're a doomed fucker or she/she is
[2009/04/03 12:37] Pirate Russell: Which means he ain’t learning from any of them. Which means…you’re the next train wreck.
[2009/04/03 12:37] ***SF***: *he/she
[2009/04/03 12:37] ***DT***: hmmmmm
[2009/04/03 12:37] Pirate Russell: ((For Me it IS She/she))
[2009/04/03 12:37] Pirate Russell: What do you suppose he’ll say about you to the train wreck that follows after you?
[2009/04/03 12:37] Pirate Russell: ~Tell the truth from the start, and you won’t have to worry about any nasty revelations down the road.
[2009/04/03 12:37] ***SF***: I was looking at it on a wide sight. it's she/she to me too lol))
[2009/04/03 12:38] Pirate Russell: Especially about things you worry might scare her off. Seriously, if the truth about you makes you incompatible as a romantic partner, you want to scare her off.
[2009/04/03 12:38] Pirate Russell: You’re bisexual but your new love interest hates gays?
[2009/04/03 12:38] ***WW***: ok, just curious here....is this about relationships?
[2009/04/03 12:38] Pirate Russell: You fancy country music and your partner would rather die than listen to it?
[2009/04/03 12:38] Pirate Russell: Pretty much, actually, ***WW***
[2009/04/03 12:38] Pirate Russell: Hiding those things doesn’t help your cause; it merely makes the blowup that much more dramatic when the truth comes out.
[2009/04/03 12:39] Pirate Russell: Which it will, eventually.
[2009/04/03 12:39] Pirate Russell: ~Be honest, be true to who you are, and you won’t have to worry about what happens if you slip up.
[2009/04/03 12:39] Pirate Russell: On the other hand, make yourself seem like something you’re not, even if it’s to make yourself seem more attractive to the other person
[2009/04/03 12:39] Pirate Russell: (hell, especially if it’s to make yourself seem more attractive to the other person!) is going to end badly, sooner or later. I promise.
[2009/04/03 12:39] Pirate Russell: Citation: http://tacit.livejournal.com/280915.html?view=3415123
[2009/04/03 12:39] Pirate Russell:
[2009/04/03 12:39] Pirate Russell: All transcripts can be found at http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com
[2009/04/03 12:39] Pirate Russell: College of Kink classes are always posted in "Search" go to Events and type in the word College
[2009/04/03 12:40] Pirate Russell: Questions? Comments???
[2009/04/03 12:40] Pirate Russell:
[2009/04/03 12:40] Pirate Russell: SpeakEasy HUD detaching...
[2009/04/03 12:40] ***WW***: yes
[2009/04/03 12:40] ***SM***: to thine own self be true
[2009/04/03 12:40] Pirate Russell: Yep, ***WW***?
[2009/04/03 12:40] ***WW***: question.......now i dont knck what was sid
[2009/04/03 12:40] ***WW***: said*
[2009/04/03 12:40] ***WW***: but the question is this
[2009/04/03 12:41] Pirate Russell cranks Her music, "I'm in Love With My Best Friend" can't plan that stuff!
[2009/04/03 12:41] ***WW***: all people are diferent so known that, wouldnt the outcome be different for all?
[2009/04/03 12:41] ***SF*** would gladly... but she's happy :/
[2009/04/03 12:41] Pirate Russell: Yes, but if you attract the same type, over and over, there's an issue there somewhere. If we're identical, one of us isn't necessary
[2009/04/03 12:42] ***SF*** knows people are not that different one to each other...
[2009/04/03 12:42] ***SF***: I have a question.
[2009/04/03 12:42] Pirate Russell: Hubby, and even the evil-ex bring things to our family (I have 2 kids, so I deal with him too) that enhance our family
[2009/04/03 12:43] ***SF***: If you see your partner hides things, is there a way to know she won't feel forced not involving a third?
[2009/04/03 12:44] Pirate Russell: Some of us just suffer on in silence, knowing that things are hidden, knowing they're there, and not dealing them, that's called "Exes"... LOL
[2009/04/03 12:45] ***SF***: T_T
[2009/04/03 12:45] ***DT***: lol
[2009/04/03 12:45] ***WW***: another question
[2009/04/03 12:45] Pirate Russell: Rock on ***WW***!
[2009/04/03 12:45] ***WW***: now with all that said
[2009/04/03 12:45] ***WW***: onething i don't understand
[2009/04/03 12:46] ***WW***: people accept all that because they're afraid of bein alone
[2009/04/03 12:46] ***WW***: so Pirate, u said
[2009/04/03 12:46] Pirate Russell: Yes, and also for self-esteem reasons, etc, too!
[2009/04/03 12:46] ***WW***: u put up wth it, but the question is why?
[2009/04/03 12:47] Pirate Russell: Afraid of being a single mom, in My case, there was no abuse, no cheating in My case, just VAST incompatability
[2009/04/03 12:47] ***WW***: ok
[2009/04/03 12:48] ***WW***: so, now i am not trying to be hard erson
[2009/04/03 12:48] ***WW***: person*
[2009/04/03 12:48] Pirate Russell: And in case I didn't say "In My Case" offten enough, there, that was in My case
[2009/04/03 12:49] ***WW***: but that what i mean
[2009/04/03 12:49] ***WW***: everyone has different views on relationships
[2009/04/03 12:49] Pirate Russell: he he, I see your point, ***WW***, and I agree
[2009/04/03 12:49] ***WW***: i like hearing others views
[2009/04/03 12:49] Pirate Russell: Each relationship is as different as the people and farm animals, that are in it!
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***WW***: lol
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***WW***: Hey, that's funny!!!
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***SF***: lol
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***SM*** makes a chicken clucking sound...
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***AG***: dont forget the insects............
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***WW***: lol
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***SF*** wants to be the farm's bull :3
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***WW***: Hey, that's funny!!!
[2009/04/03 12:50] Pirate Russell: Seriously, every Relatonship is different!
[2009/04/03 12:50] ***WW***: true
[2009/04/03 12:51] ***SF*** watches... Laura Pausini?...
[2009/04/03 12:51] ***WW***: but known that, who is really he expert?
[2009/04/03 12:51] ***SF***: *listens
[2009/04/03 12:51] ***SM***: we all are our own experts if we but listen to our true feelings
[2009/04/03 12:52] Pirate Russell thinks we all have to be experts in ourselves, and tell our partners what we want.
[2009/04/03 12:52] ***SF***: then again, there is one major fear, once we know we have something we shall share
[2009/04/03 12:52] ***SF***: fear
[2009/04/03 12:52] Pirate Russell: Be it a BDSM relationhip, an online marriage, or buying tires!
[2009/04/03 12:52] ***SF***: to broke her heart
[2009/04/03 12:52] ***SF***: buying tires? O_o
[2009/04/03 12:52] ***WW***: u can tell ur partner what u want, but its ur partner who must except it
[2009/04/03 12:52] ***SM***: better to have loved and lost....
[2009/04/03 12:53] ***DT***: I think in relationships as in everything, the trust & honesty is important. If its not there,then everything is up in the air.
[2009/04/03 12:53] ***DT***: Thats really the bottom line.
[2009/04/03 12:53] Pirate Russell: You must talk, and communicate in the begining, let the other person know what you want, what you like, what you hate, and listen to them.
[2009/04/03 12:53] Pirate Russell: If you can work with what they want, and they what you want.... BINGO!
[2009/04/03 12:53] ***SF***: and then again, there is what we tell ourselves.
[2009/04/03 12:54] Pirate Russell: Also, true ***SF***.
[2009/04/03 12:54] Pirate Russell: If you can't be honest with yourself, how the hell can you be honest with someone else?
[2009/04/03 12:54] ***SF***: what we hide from ourselves can do as much harms as something we hide from our partners
[2009/04/03 12:55] Pirate Russell: MORE!
[2009/04/03 12:56] ***SF*** thinks of his past... "Yes, you're right. More"
[2009/04/03 12:56] ***WW***: i have one last question
[2009/04/03 12:56] Pirate Russell: What we hide from ourselves will sabatoge LOTS of things, what I hide from you is only hurting one relationshiop
[2009/04/03 12:56] Pirate Russell: er relationship
[2009/04/03 12:56] Pirate Russell: Shoot, ***WW***
[2009/04/03 12:56] ***WW***: now, all what was said, talking, letting each other know, etc..... now if the couple on the same page, how does one fall out of love?
[2009/04/03 12:57] Pirate Russell doesn't have the answer to that, unless it's too much SL?
[2009/04/03 12:57] Pirate Russell: Seriously, I don't know, I've never figured that one out
[2009/04/03 12:57] ***AG***: uh oh
[2009/04/03 12:58] ***SF***: in SL it's "easy" turn off the viewer for some months, and she might be gone
[2009/04/03 12:58] ***SF***: and maybe your love for her too
[2009/04/03 12:58] ***WW***: ok, just wondering, because if they're so many books abut reationsip, where are the books on what people do when fallss out of love
[2009/04/03 12:58] ***SF***: in RL...
[2009/04/03 12:58] ***WW***: Hey, that's funny!!!
[2009/04/03 12:59] ***WW***: ok, i am finish with the questions...thank u
[2009/04/03 13:00] Pirate Russell: Well, opinions are like armpits, most folks have at least one, and they usually smell. I've found that most relationship books are little more than opiniosns, as was Tacit's piece, that I quoted. But I think his stinks WAY less than ALL the others
[2009/04/03 13:00] ***DT***: LOL
[2009/04/03 13:00] ***WW***: ok
[2009/04/03 13:00] ***AG***: lol
[2009/04/03 13:01] ***SF***: lol
[2009/04/03 13:01] ***WW***: so whe the knky talking cominglike is it good to use whips...
[2009/04/03 13:01] ***WW***: Hey, that's funny!!!
[2009/04/03 13:01] ***WW***: joking
[2009/04/03 13:02] Pirate Russell has a quirt she's WAY fond of!
[2009/04/03 13:02] ***WW***: Pirate, considering ur were doing the teachings i have a question for u
[2009/04/03 13:03] Pirate's Quirt is placed firmly into Pirate's hand.
[2009/04/03 13:03] Pirate Russell: Ask away!
[2009/04/03 13:03] ***DT*** grins, another question watch out ***WW***, she's ready for you.
[2009/04/03 13:03] ***WW***: now, its a sex question,
[2009/04/03 13:03] ***WW***: now,
[2009/04/03 13:03] ***WW***: say u havea coupe who is perfect
[2009/04/03 13:03] ***WW***: meaning
[2009/04/03 13:03] ***WW***: they're in bliss
[2009/04/03 13:03] Pirate Russell: Not a problem, if I don't have a good answer, then I'll make one up!
[2009/04/03 13:03] Pirate Russell: Ok...
[2009/04/03 13:03] ***WW***: now like we all have once in a while
[2009/04/03 13:03] ***WW***: get that sex urge
[2009/04/03 13:04] ***WW***: and wanna do it, like its goingout ofstyle
[2009/04/03 13:04] ***WW***: now, one partner cant kee up
[2009/04/03 13:04] Pirate Russell knows LOTS of styles... he he
[2009/04/03 13:04] ***SM***: "What's Love Got to Do With It?" <- Tina Turner
[2009/04/03 13:04] ***WW***: what does the other partner to to get they're fill
[2009/04/03 13:04] Pirate Russell: Right...
[2009/04/03 13:04] ***SF***: if sh'es broken, use your hand lol (jk)
[2009/04/03 13:05] ***WW***: Hey, that's funny!!!
[2009/04/03 13:05] ***DT***: lol oh wow
[2009/04/03 13:05] Pirate Russell: Well, We, use pornography, Masterbation, and I've done *it* when I din't wanna, but I know he did
[2009/04/03 13:05] Pirate Russell: And yes WE use it, not just him.
[2009/04/03 13:05] ***WW***: we all done it
[2009/04/03 13:06] Pirate Russell: AND I want him to be happy enough to forgo a little of My happiness, if that's what it takes
[2009/04/03 13:06] ***WW***: hmmmmmmmm
[2009/04/03 13:06] ***SF***: sometimes it's the other way around
[2009/04/03 13:06] Pirate Russell: Yes, it is, was last nigth!
[2009/04/03 13:06] ***AG***: lol
[2009/04/03 13:06] ***DT*** laughs
[2009/04/03 13:06] ***SF***: lol
[2009/04/03 13:07] Pirate Russell: He wanted to, and I get up at 3am, local time, for work
[2009/04/03 13:07] Pirate Russell: So he'll be home in 2 hrs ,and WATCH OUT!
[2009/04/03 13:07] ***AG***: guess you will be busy :o)
[2009/04/03 13:07] Pirate Russell G.D. HOPES SO!
[2009/04/03 13:07] ***SF***: lol
[2009/04/03 13:07] ***AG***: hahahahaaa
[2009/04/03 13:08] ***WW***: welll thanks for the the session
[2009/04/03 13:09] ***AG***: yes, Pirate, thank you!!
[2009/04/03 13:09] Pirate Russell: It's My pleasure, I learn more than y'all do, TRUST ME!
[2009/04/03 13:09] ***SF***: aye, peen enlightening, as allways
[2009/04/03 13:09] ***SF***: *been
[2009/04/03 13:09] ***DT***: Yes, thank you Mistress for the information.
[2009/04/03 13:09] ***AG***: these sessions are always great
[2009/04/03 13:09] ***WW***: Pirate, thats a question there, but i like ur thinking
[2009/04/03 13:09] ***AG***: the most sensible and plain spoken around
[2009/04/03 13:09] ***SM***: thank You, Ma'am
[2009/04/03 13:10] Pirate Russell does Her best, I'm here to educate and discuss, not to be the Alpha Bitch Domme, during class
[2009/04/03 13:10] ***WW***: ok all ...have a blessed day, night and wkend
[2009/04/03 13:10] Pirate Russell: And you as well, ***WW***
[2009/04/03 13:11] ***SM***: you too, ***WW***. Thanks
[2009/04/03 13:11] ***DT***: okay good bye ***WW***
[2009/04/03 13:11] Pirate Russell steps out of the way of the disappearing chairs
[2009/04/03 13:11] ***SF***: well, ladies, I'm sorry, nut I leave you in evil Miss Pirate's arms
[2009/04/03 13:11] ***DT*** grins, I just love that table
[2009/04/03 13:11] Pirate Russell: Thanks for coming by, Everyone
[2009/04/03 13:11] ***SF***: ;)
[2009/04/03 13:11] ***WW***: be safe al
[2009/04/03 13:12] ***SM***'s collar: Pirate Russell pushes ***SM*** to the ground sharply, binding her arms and legs.
[2009/04/03 13:12] ***SF***: ciao
[2009/04/03 13:12] ***SM*** gasps
[2009/04/03 13:12] ***SM***'s collar: Pirate Russell ensnares ***SM*** pushing her to a wide spread position and binds her wrists.
[2009/04/03 13:12] ***AG***: good bye, and thanks again!!
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