submissive Rights - 1/27/09

[2009/01/27 7:12] Pirate Russell: Ok, those that will, please turn off any radars, MystiTools, etc.
[2009/01/27 7:12] Pirate Russell: Please take all cross talk to IM, and all collar, etc commands to the secondary channels!
[2009/01/27 7:12] Pirate Russell: Welcome to House of V's College of Kink! As most of y'all know, My name is Pirate Russell, Head Mistress of the College, and today's instructor. I have been in SL for 3 years, a lesbian Domme, the entire time.
[2009/01/27 7:12] Pirate Russell: For any that need to leave early, all transcripts can be found at http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com
[2009/01/27 7:12] Pirate Russell: What Is Submission?
[2009/01/27 7:12] Pirate Russell: Author: Raven Shadowborne © 1997
[2009/01/27 7:13] Pirate Russell: Submission: (by definition) the act of granting power to another
[2009/01/27 7:13] Pirate Russell: A rather frightening prospect for most people. To give control of yourself to someone else. The act of submitting is part of the power exchange inherent within a D/s relationship.
[2009/01/27 7:13] Pirate Russell: It is the giving of yourself to another within preset limits, arranged before hand.
[2009/01/27 7:13] Pirate Russell: It is an informed choice and therefor consensual. A person shouldn't just decide to submit to the first dominant they meet.
[2009/01/27 7:13] Pirate Russell: Unless it's Me.... LOL
[2009/01/27 7:13] Pirate Russell: A submissive should take the time to get to know the dominant outside the roles of dominant and submissive, as the person he/she is.
[2009/01/27 7:14] Pirate Russell: With the information gathered during that initial learning of each other process, the submissive can then make an informed decision of whether or not to submit to that dominant.
[2009/01/27 7:14] Pirate Russell: This process should include discussions of expectations, wants, needs and desires.
[2009/01/27 7:14] Pirate Russell: Each submissive must decide for themselves how far they are willing to go and still stay within the guidelines of safe sane and consensual, thereby not crossing into the realm of abuse.
[2009/01/27 7:14] Pirate Russell: The three tenets of D/s must always apply for the submission to be true submission and not abuse.
[2009/01/27 7:14] Pirate Russell: Why a person is submissive varies extensively from person to person. Some are submissive just for a little extra zing in their intimate lives. Others may have a deep psychological need that prevents them from being any other way.
[2009/01/27 7:15] Pirate Russell: There are three main types of submissives There are more concise groupings than these three broad ones, as evidenced by the 9 levels of submission that are widely used and referred to in many books and discussions of D/s.
[2009/01/27 7:15] Pirate Russell: ~A: Sexual Submissive (AKA bottom, sensual submissive)
[2009/01/27 7:15] Pirate Russell: A sexual sub is in D/s for their own sexual gratification. Once their sexual needs are met they are satisfied. They feel no real need to submit any personal control to another.
[2009/01/27 7:15] Pirate Russell: ~B: Psychological Submissive
[2009/01/27 7:15] Pirate Russell: This broad category tends to include those who are in it for the pain and humiliation a D/s relationship can give them.
[2009/01/27 7:15] Pirate Russell: This category tends to include most masochists. Those who have suffered real abuse and are stuck in victim mode, tend to end up in this category.
[2009/01/27 7:16] Pirate Russell: ~C: Natural Submissive (AKA True Submissive)
[2009/01/27 7:16] Pirate Russell: she/he is born with a submissive nature. A need to please others. This need and submissive tendency goes beyond sexual gratification.
[2009/01/27 7:16] Pirate Russell: It is in their nature to please others, and they will readily give up their control to another with very little or no urging from their dominant.
[2009/01/27 7:16] Pirate Russell: Who's to say which category is best?
[2009/01/27 7:16] Pirate Russell: Being submissive is unique and you are an individual. Being submissive comes from the heart. It can not be believably faked, acted or role played.
[2009/01/27 7:16] Pirate Russell: True submission is a gift of high value. It is my opinion that those in the lifestyle should not judge any one else within the lifestyle for their choices.
[2009/01/27 7:17] Pirate Russell: Who are we to say that a sexual sub is not submissive on a different level? Or that there can only be one type of submissive? Remember, life is full of small variances and innuendoes, so is D/s.
[2009/01/27 7:17] Pirate Russell: I'm going to finish up with the submissive Bill of Rights. Remember that submissives are not doormats they are people, strong enough to give themselves to another person, let someone else tell them, make them, watch them do what they're told!
[2009/01/27 7:17] Pirate Russell: submissive Bill of Rights:
[2009/01/27 7:18] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to be treated with courtesy.
[2009/01/27 7:18] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to be treated with respect.
[2009/01/27 7:18] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to express feelings, whether good or bad.
[2009/01/27 7:18] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to disagree and express disagreement.
[2009/01/27 7:18] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to stand up for your beliefs, values and morals.
[2009/01/27 7:19] Pirate Russell: ~you have a right to retain your self respect and self worth.
[2009/01/27 7:19] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to say No.
[2009/01/27 7:19] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to walk away from an unhealthy situation.
[2009/01/27 7:20] Pirate Russell: Personally, I'd put that one as a "Duty".
[2009/01/27 7:20] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to be treated as an intelligent, thinking person, entitled to your feelings.
[2009/01/27 7:20] Pirate Russell: ~you have the right to make mistakes and ask those mistakes to be forgiven.
[2009/01/27 7:20] Pirate Russell: All transcripts can be found at http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com
[2009/01/27 7:20] Pirate Russell: College of Kink classes Monday, Tuesday, Thursday & Friday @ 7a, Monday & Thursday 12:30a.
[2009/01/27 7:20] Pirate Russell: Y/you could always check the Search/Events and look for College or Join House of V Friends, or House of V groups, for notices immediately before the classes.
[2009/01/27 7:20] Pirate Russell: Questions, Comments???
[2009/01/27 7:22] Pirate Russell: And welcome to all those that came in....
[2009/01/27 7:22] ***TV***: apologizes for tardy arrival
[2009/01/27 7:22] ***JT***: Good Morning Mistress Pirate.....
[2009/01/27 7:23] Pirate Russell: Not a problem, if there are not questions or comments, this'll be a SHORT class.. he he
[2009/01/27 7:23] ***SB***: good class by the way *smiles*
[2009/01/27 7:23] ***PW*** i take it from that i missed it
[2009/01/27 7:24] Pirate Russell: Thanx Shu, though I hope it's JUST begun
[2009/01/27 7:24] ***IM***: How do things differ between a short term scene and a long term relationship? Is it just a matter of degree or do some guidlines change?
[2009/01/27 7:24] Pirate Russell: I'd say both, it's almost like the difference between a date and a marriage.
[2009/01/27 7:24] ***TV***: Grins. Hopes my subs do not see all those "rights". They might just get uppity. LOL
[2009/01/27 7:25] Pirate Russell hopes they do Tantalus, too many subs are mistreated by "dominants" who are abusive, or just plain dont' kwno what they're doing
[2009/01/27 7:25] ***JU***: this question of values interests me mistress . . . .
[2009/01/27 7:25] Srilania Svoboda: My girls get those outlined in their contracts, so they know in black and white what their rights are
[2009/01/27 7:26] ***MK*** nods
[2009/01/27 7:26] ***AG***: what is a safe way to explore submission in short scenes if you're not sure what you want?
[2009/01/27 7:26] ***JU***: many people, me included,are struggling to separate what culture conditions us to value and what is really real for us
[2009/01/27 7:26] ***TV***: Amen Pirate. Was teasing as you well know
[2009/01/27 7:27] Pirate Russell: Negotiate with the other party what you want, want to try, won't do (or have them in our profile), and try it
[2009/01/27 7:27] ***JU***: contracts. is there a sample contract somewhere to look at?
[2009/01/27 7:27] Pirate Russell: Ies, Tantalus, I do know you were, but that's why I took this job! Too many "kiri-nterventions"
[2009/01/27 7:27] ***AG***: i dont really want to be explicit in my profile; this is private.....
[2009/01/27 7:27] ***KC*** smiles
[2009/01/27 7:27] Pirate Russell thinks sri has a link, she did last time, and I don't have it handy
[2009/01/27 7:28] Srilania Svoboda: Let me look. I think i have one that you can look at
[2009/01/27 7:28] Pirate Russell: Well, at least a notecard with your limits, would speed the process, Adagio
[2009/01/27 7:29] ***AG***: okay....... :o) might be a short nc cuz i dont know my limits yet.........
[2009/01/27 7:29] Pirate Russell: My girls all serve Me in different ways, I had one that coudn't stand spankings and LOVED bondage, another that was just the opposite
[2009/01/27 7:29] Pirate Russell: See Me after class, and we'll explore that!!
[2009/01/27 7:29] Pirate Russell: LOL, just kidding.....
[2009/01/27 7:29] ***AG***: lol
[2009/01/27 7:29] ***IM*** giggles
[2009/01/27 7:29] ***JT*** chuckles
[2009/01/27 7:30] Pirate Russell: I guess you could start with what you want to try that particular session....
[2009/01/27 7:30] Pirate Russell: spanking, public humiliation, etc
[2009/01/27 7:30] ***AG***: but seriously, i dont want to be wandering around asking folks if they want to dominate me; are there "mixers"??
[2009/01/27 7:30] ***JU***: TY Sri! very complete . . .
[2009/01/27 7:30] ***AG***: ty, Miss Sri
[2009/01/27 7:30] ***IM***: this girl got many of her limits much better defined during scenes :)
[2009/01/27 7:31] Srilania Svoboda: If you use that slave contract, i would redo it with Master instead of Mistress, then copy and paste it to a new notecard
[2009/01/27 7:31] Pirate Russell: Go to a place where the Dominants hang... here, Bondabe Ranch, Twisted Orchid, Stonehaven... the list is virtually endless
[2009/01/27 7:31] Pirate Russell: *I* on the other hand, would leave the "Mistress" in! LOL
[2009/01/27 7:32] Pirate Russell: And that's "BondaGe Ranch", of course!
[2009/01/27 7:32] Pirate Russell: And the same goes for submissives seeking a dominant
[2009/01/27 7:32] Srilania Svoboda: then make it NOMOD, so that copy keeps your digital signature. Then have your slave do the same, and hand one back to you as nomod. That puts digital signatures on 2 copies
[2009/01/27 7:32] ***TV***: growls at SL
[2009/01/27 7:32] ***JU***: yes,i like that i reads "mistress"
[2009/01/27 7:32] ***AG***: never thought of the "no mod" suggestion, good one.........
[2009/01/27 7:33] Pirate Russell: Works for skirts, why not contracts? LOL
[2009/01/27 7:33] Srilania Svoboda: That way if the one tries saying "Wait, that's not in the agreement I signed off on" you have 2 locked copies as proof
[2009/01/27 7:33] ***IM***: How often should that contract be revisited?
[2009/01/27 7:33] Srilania Svoboda: The slavery contract? it's pretty thorough
[2009/01/27 7:34] Pirate Russell: I would say, as often as needed, limits, and likes, alike can shift, even within a scene, anal sex may be a Hard LImit, at the start, but it might be a little more, 'appitising' later in a session
[2009/01/27 7:35] ***IM***: Thank You.
[2009/01/27 7:36] Srilania Svoboda: Well, in the contracts, they reffer to a seperate BDSM Checklist, and that checklist should be reviewed at LEAST once a month, and probably more frequently
[2009/01/27 7:36] Pirate Russell: I'll post those on the blog
[2009/01/27 7:36] ***TV***: My two subs both make "suggestions" as to likes and dislikes each week by notecard. On Sunday we all sit down to discuss these and perhaps incorporate them into our lifestyle here.
[2009/01/27 7:37] ***IM***: Would You recommend the contract and checklist for SL as well as RL?
[2009/01/27 7:37] Pirate Russell: VERY good idea, Tantalus, though ,I'm not near that organized... he he
[2009/01/27 7:37] ***TV***: grins
[2009/01/27 7:37] Srilania Svoboda: Oh, most definitely. They are good, clear, and concise tools for communication
[2009/01/27 7:37] Pirate Russell: I have NO RL experience, with BDSM, but I would think it's MORE IMPORTANT, where you ass can actually be beaten!
[2009/01/27 7:38] Srilania Svoboda: And Ibrew, those ARE the forms I use in SL
[2009/01/27 7:38] Pirate Russell: er youR ass...
[2009/01/27 7:38] ***TV***: Indeed.
[2009/01/27 7:38] Pirate Russell: In that case, sri, MAY I post those on the blog?
[2009/01/27 7:39] Srilania Svoboda: Of course
[2009/01/27 7:39] Pirate Russell: Ok, just checking, as they are technically your property
[2009/01/27 7:39] ***TV***: Here is SL it seems subs address Dominants as "Sir" or "Ma'am" whether they deserve it or not. In my RL lashes n' lace group a sub ONLY addresses her own Dominant like that. The rest is first names
[2009/01/27 7:40] Srilania Svoboda: They are Creative Commons license. My gift to the SL BDSM Community
[2009/01/27 7:40] Pirate Russell: Thanks
[2009/01/27 7:40] Srilania Svoboda: Just give me credit :P
[2009/01/27 7:41] Pirate Russell: Tantalus, I direct My girls to use Mr/Miss until corrected. This shows that they know their place and shows respect. they may call none "Mistress" except Me, and there is No Master, and never will be, in My family
[2009/01/27 7:41] Srilania Svoboda: And yes, modify as needed to fit your situations, as some things in them do not quite fit all needs
[2009/01/27 7:42] Pirate Russell: WHAT, sri?!?! One size doesn't fit ALL?!?
[2009/01/27 7:42] ***JH*** feigns complete shock
[2009/01/27 7:43] ***JT***: welcome back Sir....
[2009/01/27 7:43] Pirate Russell calls that "One Size Fits NOBODY"!
[2009/01/27 7:43] ***AH***: thank you
[2009/01/27 7:43] Srilania Svoboda: Well, I to take an awfully large whip :P
[2009/01/27 7:45] Pirate Russell remembers to go whip shopping after work!
[2009/01/27 7:45] ***IM***: No hurry, Mistress.
[2009/01/27 7:45] ***JT*** chuckles
[2009/01/27 7:45] Srilania Svoboda: They have chain whips at a few stores
[2009/01/27 7:45] ***IM***: As a Dom/me, do You treat the different types of subbies differently? Should You? How do You tell them apart?
[2009/01/27 7:46] Pirate Russell: OF COURSE I DO!
[2009/01/27 7:46] Pirate Russell: If each of My subbies were identical, 3 of them ould be unnecessary!
[2009/01/27 7:46] ***JH*** wonders if little dog tags might help to keep them sorted
[2009/01/27 7:46] Srilania Svoboda: You have to read each to find which they are. it's not something that can really be taught in a quick class
[2009/01/27 7:46] ***TV***: Monster question
[2009/01/27 7:46] ***TV***: EVERY sub is different and of course you treat them differently. Only way to find out is to be with them and talk a lot
[2009/01/27 7:46] Pirate Russell: I value each of Mine for their qualities, and personalities!
[2009/01/27 7:47] Pirate Russell: D/s is a RELATIONSHIP, and each RELATIONSHIP is as different as those that are in it!
[2009/01/27 7:47] ***IM***: Would You recommend different contracts for each then?
[2009/01/27 7:48] ***TV***: This is why I have an inherent distrust of people who refuse to share ANY RL information. How else can you get a know a person?
[2009/01/27 7:48] Pirate Russell: And as such, EVERY RELATIONSHIP just plain requires C......... ANYONE?!
[2009/01/27 7:48] ***SB***: COMMUNICATION LOL
[2009/01/27 7:48] Pirate Russell: GOOD, Shu
[2009/01/27 7:48] ***TV***: Smiles. Always comes down to communication doesn't it?
[2009/01/27 7:48] ***SB***: im a good student *smiles*
[2009/01/27 7:49] Srilania Svoboda: Just like some love the ultra vibe pleasure 4000 with it's v6 engine and kick starter, there's others that are just as pleased with the lil pocket rocket that runs on watch batteries
[2009/01/27 7:49] Pirate Russell: Well, SOME are just RP Dominants, but the ones that live it, should be HAPPY to share SOMEthing
[2009/01/27 7:49] Srilania Svoboda: Even RP ones
[2009/01/27 7:49] ***TV***: Applauds Pirate
[2009/01/27 7:49] ***JT***: /makes equipment notes
[2009/01/27 7:49] ***JT***: ;-)
[2009/01/27 7:49] Pirate Russell: Craftsman makes it, Jada, gotta get them from the catalog!
[2009/01/27 7:50] Srilania Svoboda: Actually, that's covered in my class next week, BDSM on a budget
[2009/01/27 7:50] ***TV***: Whips from Cheapo Deepo?
[2009/01/27 7:50] ***IM***: Dungeon Depot?
[2009/01/27 7:50] Pirate Russell: EASY, I work @ Home Depot, and we just laid off 7000 yesterday... he he
[2009/01/27 7:50] ***IM***: Eeep!
[2009/01/27 7:51] ***AG***: yikes
[2009/01/27 7:51] ***JT***: eeek!
[2009/01/27 7:51] ***TV***: You safe Pirate?
[2009/01/27 7:51] Pirate Russell is SAFE, but yeah, closed a subsidiary, and 500 from Headquartes in Atlanta
[2009/01/27 7:51] ***JH***: Expo got dumped...
[2009/01/27 7:51] Srilania Svoboda: It's an ongoing companion piece that started with safewords, feeds into SL>RL scenes, then into BDSM on a budget
[2009/01/27 7:51] Pirate Russell: Got rid of like 50VP's in all of that....
[2009/01/27 7:52] Pirate Russell: It's good to be lowest of the low... he he
[2009/01/27 7:52] Srilania Svoboda: Buh Bye golden parachutes!
[2009/01/27 7:52] Pirate Russell: ANYWAY.....
[2009/01/27 7:52] ***PD*** considers the craft store projects
[2009/01/27 7:52] ***JT***: really? bye bye Expo?
[2009/01/27 7:52] ***JT***: We re leaving Sir?
[2009/01/27 7:52] Pirate Russell: Yepper! Selling out what they got thru April
[2009/01/27 7:52] Pirate Russell: Gift of submission ot Arhtur Blank... er
[2009/01/27 7:52] Pirate Russell: Gift of Submission.....
[2009/01/27 7:52] ***JT***: Good day Miss..thank you for another excellent class....
[2009/01/27 7:52] Pirate Russell: Anymore questions, comments, dirty jokes?
[2009/01/27 7:52] ***JT*** grins
[2009/01/27 7:53] ***TV***: .smiles. Good job as usual Pirate
[2009/01/27 7:53] ***AG***: thank you very much!
[2009/01/27 7:53] Pirate Russell: Thanks, This subject, submissives, is why I took this job in July, last. Too many abused by newbie males that want easy sex!
[2009/01/27 7:53] Srilania Svoboda: Little Jonny was walking down the street....
[2009/01/27 7:54] Pirate Russell: Who's got no arms and no legs and comes to your house every month?
[2009/01/27 7:54] Pirate Russell: BILL!
[2009/01/27 7:54] ***IM*** groans.
[2009/01/27 7:54] Srilania Svoboda: It is also why I took the job last month to teach here as well. I got tired of seeing broken toys
[2009/01/27 7:55] ***MK*** smiles up to Aijin
[2009/01/27 7:55] Pirate Russell: Broken toys, and ruined subbies that leave the Lifestyle, or SL alltogether!
[2009/01/27 7:55] ***MK***: almost left the lifestyle myself.
[2009/01/27 7:55] Srilania Svoboda: They are those broken through abuse, neglect, and all around asshattery
[2009/01/27 7:56] ***TV***: Thinks HOV should have a rule of no memberships in HOV until new ones have attended 10 classes here
[2009/01/27 7:56] Srilania Svoboda: Yes, my geisha here is one such broken toy
[2009/01/27 7:56] Pirate Russell: As is kiri... and to a lesser extent ibrew....
[2009/01/27 7:56] ***KC*** nods and smiles
[2009/01/27 7:57] Srilania Svoboda: As am I, actually
[2009/01/27 7:57] Pirate Russell: I got tired, well no I did to many, "Kiri-nterventions", explaining that it doens't have to be that way!
[2009/01/27 7:57] Srilania Svoboda: Though my breakage occoured long before i ever stepped foot in Second Life
[2009/01/27 7:57] ***TV***: There are few in SL who haven't had a bit of a broken heart at one time or another
[2009/01/27 7:58] Pirate Russell: The ones that haven't had it broken yet, aren't puttin it out there, in SL RELATIONSHIPS burn hot and fast, the majority of the time
[2009/01/27 7:58] Srilania Svoboda: There's a huge difference between getting one's heart broken and one getting savagely abused.
[2009/01/27 7:58] ***MK*** nods
[2009/01/27 7:58] ***TV***: I often have new subs ask me how to tell the difference between a fake and real Dom. I tell them, "Simple, the fakes make an immediate dive for your crotch without an attempt to become friends first:
[2009/01/27 7:59] Pirate Russell: Or there they're the "SL is a Simulation" crowd
[2009/01/27 7:59] Pirate Russell: True, VERY grue,.
[2009/01/27 7:59] Pirate Russell: and true, too
[2009/01/27 7:59] ***PD***: Or expect you to kneel because they're a "Dom"
[2009/01/27 7:59] ***TV***: Fake subs, however, are more difficult to spot.
[2009/01/27 7:59] ***TV***: Much
[2009/01/27 7:59] Pirate Russell: The fakes are the ones that NEED the trappings, the collars, cuffs, and chains, the REAL ones are the ones that subbies choose to submit to
[2009/01/27 8:00] Srilania Svoboda: Then there are the Bitching, Dicking around, Stand and Model Dom/mes
[2009/01/27 8:00] ***TV***: good point Pirate. Submission is in hte mind, not toys
[2009/01/27 8:00] ***TV***: LOL Sri
[2009/01/27 8:00] Pirate Russell: Like I said last week, "If a Dominant is the center if a subby's universe, it's because she thinks so, not because He does!"
[2009/01/27 8:00] ***TV***: yess
[2009/01/27 8:01] Srilania Svoboda: Like this one here? You see she wears no chains most of the time
[2009/01/27 8:01] Pirate Russell sheds a little tear, as She strokes ibrew's hair
[2009/01/27 8:01] Srilania Svoboda: Note I do not even have my Tokon control HUD on
[2009/01/27 8:01] Srilania Svoboda: Why does she kneel here?
[2009/01/27 8:01] ***MK*** smiles
[2009/01/27 8:01] ***IM*** snuggles to Mistress' leg
[2009/01/27 8:02] ***JH***: me can't help but notice it always comes back to common sense and communication
[2009/01/27 8:02] Srilania Svoboda: Because she chooses to remain, and chooses to wear the one restraint no fake Dominant can EVER buy
[2009/01/27 8:02] Pirate Russell: Yes, Jazzn, but there is a diffference between "Common Sense" and "Common Practice". I teach the latter!
[2009/01/27 8:03] Pirate Russell: ((is listening to "The 7 Habbits of Effective People", and heard that just this AM....))
[2009/01/27 8:04] Srilania Svoboda: She wears the restraint made from Love, Trust, and Understanding, and bound to me by communication. Takes no prims, no scripts, and no Domabe can EVER fake
[2009/01/27 8:04] ***MK*** looks to Aijin
[2009/01/27 8:05] ***JH***: ((would suggest "who moved my cheese for people dealing with change))
[2009/01/27 8:07] Pirate Russell: Well, on that note, Class Dismissed, thanks for coming and come back thur 12:30am Thur, and Thur/Fri at 7am!
[2009/01/27 8:07] Srilania Svoboda listens to the crickets
[2009/01/27 8:07] ***IM*** smiles
[2009/01/27 8:07] ***JH***: good class...thanks
[2009/01/27 8:07] ***SB***: thanks you, Pirate
[2009/01/27 8:07] Pirate Russell: My pleasure, this one is My PASSION!
[2009/01/27 8:07] ***TV***: Take care good people
[2009/01/27 8:07] ***SB***: very good class, as always
[2009/01/27 8:07] ***PD***: Thank you
[2009/01/27 8:07] ***AG***: Thanks, Pirate
[2009/01/27 8:08] ***KC***: thank You Miss Pirate for another great discussion
[2009/01/27 8:08] Pirate Russell: Y/y'all are VERY welcome
[2009/01/27 8:08] ***SB***: bye all
[2009/01/27 8:08] Pirate Russell: Nice tail there, Shu!
[2009/01/27 8:08] ***SB***: have a nice time
[2009/01/27 8:08] Pirate Russell: The feline one is pretty nice, too!
[2009/01/27 8:08] Pirate Russell: He he
[2009/01/27 8:08] ***SB***: *smiles*
[2009/01/27 8:08] ***SB***: *purrs*
[2009/01/27 8:09] Pirate Russell: kir, wake up and go to bed! LOL
[2009/01/27 8:09] Pirate Russell: !hug kiri
[2009/01/27 8:09] ***KC***: thank You Miss. think that's just what girl will do.
[2009/01/27 8:09] Pirate gives Kiri a big hug.
[2009/01/27 8:10] ***KC***: goodbye E/everyone