Jealousy - 2/17/09

[2009/02/17 9:11] Pirate Russell: Welcome to House of V's College of Kink! As most of y'all know, My name is Pirate Russell, Head Mistress of the College, and today's instructor. I have been in SL for 3 years, a lesbian Domme, the entire time.
[2009/02/17 9:11] ***SS2*** gets ready to set sail
[2009/02/17 9:11] Pirate Russell: For any that need to leave early, all transcripts can be found at http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com
[2009/02/17 9:11] Pirate Russell: DISCLAIMER: I have no training or schooling in Psychology, Psichiatry, or Counseling of ANY kind! All of My observations are from My real life and what I've found on the web
[2009/02/17 9:12] Pirate Russell: Or apparently spelling, either!
[2009/02/17 9:12] Pirate Russell: If you are having problems dealing with Jealousy, PLEASE PLEASE contact a competent professional!
[2009/02/17 9:12] Pirate Russell: Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival.
[2009/02/17 9:12] Pirate Russell: Dr. Jennifer James, author of "Women and the Blues: Passions That Hurt, Passions That Heal", wrote:
[2009/02/17 9:13] Pirate Russell: "Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value. Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point - that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you.
[2009/02/17 9:13] Pirate Russell: There is only one alternative - self-value. If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved. You will always think it's a mistake or luck.
[2009/02/17 9:13] Pirate Russell: Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within. Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences."
[2009/02/17 9:14] Pirate Russell: Jealousy is an emotion that can be very damaging to ANY relationship. It can also prevent you from growing emotionally.
[2009/02/17 9:14] Pirate Russell: It is not the same thing as envy. Jealousy wants what someone else has. Envy is when you don't want someone else to have what you don't have.
[2009/02/17 9:14] Pirate Russell: If a person is jealous, they already have what is desired but they are afraid of losing it.
[2009/02/17 9:15] Pirate Russell: When you are feeling jealous, you are undergoing an emotional combination of anger, dependency, hurt, and self doubt. When you spend time focusing on what you are not, this is a result of insecurity.
[2009/02/17 9:15] Pirate Russell: Sometimes when we are afraid of losing something, we actually cause it to happen because of our actions and behaviors.
[2009/02/17 9:15] pete Mahogany: and other times qwe give a fuck!!!
[2009/02/17 9:15] Pirate Russell: All our thoughts and actions are centered around our fears and insecurities. This causes more fear and insecurity. These feelings cause other harmful feelings and may result in us indulging in self pity.
[2009/02/17 9:16] Pirate Russell: What are some ways of dealing with jealousy?
[2009/02/17 9:16] Pirate Russell: * Develop independence. We need to be sure we are not overly dependant on any one person. We need to focus on the good things we have and not on what we don't have.
[2009/02/17 9:16] Pirate Russell: * Focus on developing more confidence and attractiveness. Sometimes something simple like getting our hair done or changing our style of clothing can help.
[2009/02/17 9:17] Pirate Russell: Taking a course on self esteem or assertiveness is also beneficial.
[2009/02/17 9:17] Pirate Russell: * Be honest with yourself. Sit down with paper and list things that are making you jealous. Look at it objectively. Are these things silly or trivial or are they really important?
[2009/02/17 9:17] Pirate Russell: * Communicate with the person who is the object of your jealousy. Tell them your feelings. Is that person doing something that is causing you to be jealous? Letting them know can often help the problem.
[2009/02/17 9:18] Pirate Russell: If this other person cares for you, they will work on changing the behavior that is adding to your jealousy. Being aware of your feelings can also help you cope better.
[2009/02/17 9:18] Pirate Russell: Realize that jealousy shows your lack of self esteem and uncertainty of your own worth. Work on taking a really good self evaluation.
[2009/02/17 9:18] Pirate Russell: This experience can be a wonderful learning opportunity for you. Work on communication with other people. Work on developing confidence.
[2009/02/17 9:19] Pirate Russell: * Study your rival. Look closely at the person you are jealous about. What do you like and dislike about the person? Are his or her qualities beyond your abilities? Be sure you are not being unrealistic about that person. Are you seeing things as they
[2009/02/17 9:19] Pirate Russell: Take control of your feelings. Terminate the relationship if nothing else seems to work. Take the time to concentrate on your own growth. Work at trying to understand and improve your relationship.
[2009/02/17 9:19] Pirate Russell: * Do not overreact. Remember, most incidents are temporary so don't magnify what happened.
[2009/02/17 9:20] Pirate Russell: Serious jealousy stems from a fear of loss, reputation, control of ourselves, our spouses, or relationships. Losing control of our emotions and feelings will only make things worse.
[2009/02/17 9:20] Pirate Russell: Bad reactions to Jealousy can even cause legal problems. I spent almoust 7 years as a Public Safety Telecommunications Officer (Big words for 911 Dispatcher).
[2009/02/17 9:20] Pirate Russell: Not one shift went by where I didn't deal with a seriuos domestic problem. Most, I'd wager, stemmed from jealousy. How many of us have read this in or local or national news media, "If I can't have him/her, then nobody can!" I've know that many people
[2009/02/17 9:20] Pirate Russell: I, for one, don't want to be someplace I'm not wanted. That's not fun for Me!
[2009/02/17 9:21] Pirate Russell: Likewise, I dont' force anyone, particularly My submissives to be with Me if they're not having fun.
[2009/02/17 9:21] Pirate Russell: This is part of My Primary rule, that real life comes first, if you're not having fun, let's go do something that is, together or apart!
[2009/02/17 9:21] Pirate Russell: I do get jealous sometimes. My girls have significant others with whom they spend time. I INSIST that they do! One has a boyfriend, one a girl friend, and another a girl of her own.
[2009/02/17 9:22] Pirate Russell: Whoopsie, make that fiancee, not boyfriend
[2009/02/17 9:22] ***IM*** smiles
[2009/02/17 9:22] Pirate Russell: I miss them when they're not around, I am envious of the time they spend away, but I want them to have fun.
[2009/02/17 9:22] Pirate Russell: Knowing they're having fun makes it all ok for Me. I want My girls, My friends, My acquaintences, and even most of My enemies to have fun.
[2009/02/17 9:22] Pirate Russell: By having other friends, they've places to go have fun when I'm alone with one of the other girls. Even when I'm alone with one, I envy the time that the others spend away.
[2009/02/17 9:22] Pirate Russell: I'm going to close today with one of My very favorite quotes on the subject, by Robert A Heinlein,
[2009/02/17 9:22] Pirate Russell: "Love" is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own... Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jea
[2009/02/17 9:23] Pirate Russell: Citations:
[2009/02/17 9:23] Pirate Russell: er ...., the greater the jealousy"
[2009/02/17 9:23] Pirate Russell: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jealousy
[2009/02/17 9:23] Pirate Russell: http://www.allaboutlifechallenges.org/dealing-with-jealousy-faq.htm
[2009/02/17 9:23] Pirate Russell: http://www.todays-woman.net/quoteid-2304.html
[2009/02/17 9:23] Pirate Russell: http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/r/robert_a_heinlein.html
[2009/02/17 9:23] Pirate Russell:
[2009/02/17 9:24] Pirate Russell: Questions???? Comments?
[2009/02/17 9:25] ***SS***: got to run, thanks Pirate
[2009/02/17 9:25] Pirate Russell: Welcome
[2009/02/17 9:26] ***IM***: Are there any ways to help others when they are jealous of you?
[2009/02/17 9:26] ***KC***: girl read somewhere that a little jealousy was good
[2009/02/17 9:26] ***KC***: is that right
[2009/02/17 9:27] Pirate Russell: Well, what I do is to is make sure that all My loves, and friends know that they are a valued part of My life
[2009/02/17 9:28] Pirate Russell: As for a little jealousy, I guess it can be good, but I don't like it
[2009/02/17 9:28] Pirate Russell: in My life
[2009/02/17 9:28] Pirate Russell: I much prefer to know that ***IM***'s having a helluva time with her fiancee
[2009/02/17 9:29] ***KC*** nods
[2009/02/17 9:30] Pirate Russell is SURE she and he are having a big time at My expense, anyway.... he he
[2009/02/17 9:30] ***KC*** giggles
[2009/02/17 9:31] ***IM*** groans
[2009/02/17 9:32] Pirate Russell: Any other questions? Comments?? Dirty Jokes???
[2009/02/17 9:33] ***NT***: What are some positive aspects of jealousy?
[2009/02/17 9:33] ***SS2*** doesnt know any dirty jokes
[2009/02/17 9:33] Pirate Russell: I'll answer the 2nd one first... ***SS2***, girl is a damn liar! LOL
[2009/02/17 9:33] ***SS2***: haha
[2009/02/17 9:33] ***SL***: sweet * innocent girls dont know dirty jokes
[2009/02/17 9:33] ***SB***: LOL
[2009/02/17 9:34] Pirate Russell: So tell us a good one, ***SL***!
[2009/02/17 9:34] ***SL*** giggles...if I knew I would Miss
[2009/02/17 9:34] ***SS2***: ooh Pirate!!
[2009/02/17 9:34] Pirate Russell: And yes, I guess there are some positive aspects, it can signal a need to look at your self esteme, to look at your releationship(s)..... a need to COMMUNICATE!
[2009/02/17 9:37] ***OW***: I do have a question if I may pose, I do not mean to garner any sense of offense, however, do some of the rules and insights you have shared with us, can they modified to an extent when concerning multiamorous relationships?
[2009/02/17 9:37] ***OW***: I only ask as it has become a prevalent experience in my journies to come across individuals who have multiple pets.
[2009/02/17 9:38] ***OW***: I, myself have none currently, however, I have always wondered about the ups as well as the plentiful downs of such an experience. If you could point me to an authority on the subject, I would be most grateful.
[2009/02/17 9:38] Pirate Russell: Well, I am polyamorous, and I have 4 active girls, and LOTS of subby friends
[2009/02/17 9:38] ***OW***: Certainly, I am listening.
[2009/02/17 9:39] ***KC*** grins
[2009/02/17 9:39] Pirate Russell has LOTS more ups, than downs, My girls are, or are becoming as sisters.. we *play* together.... and separately
[2009/02/17 9:40] Pirate Russell: As far as I know, they all understand that I have responsibilites with, and for, each of them.
[2009/02/17 9:40] ***OW***: I do realize those positives, yes. Part of the allure of multiamory in my estimate.
[2009/02/17 9:40] Pirate Russell: They each have other places to play, too, so they're not sitting around waiting for My summons, usuallly
[2009/02/17 9:40] ***OW***: Did you come to this current state by patience or did it happen of its own volition? Natural occurence?
[2009/02/17 9:40] ***SS2***: well I sorta know my limits and couldntbe in a polyamorous relationship as I know I would get jealous
[2009/02/17 9:41] ***SS2***: so I suppose you have to really think before you leap
[2009/02/17 9:41] ***SS2*** grins
[2009/02/17 9:41] Pirate Russell: A little of all 3, ***OW***, there has been some growing... some strestching.... even some whining and gnashing of teeth, but the bottom line is....
[2009/02/17 9:41] ***OW***: Oh, I most indubitously agree on that regard. Were I to not be around, I would want my pets to go about their existences when I am not available...but in my case, I would hope they would deem me a priority when I am around.
[2009/02/17 9:42] Pirate Russell: *I* am the Domme, they serve Me, they are here to make Me happy... in that they find their happiness
[2009/02/17 9:42] Pirate Russell: ***IM***, would girl care to speak to this, as well?
[2009/02/17 9:42] ***SL***: personally I feel...when ever a sub logs on..and they atleast get a hug and kiss * how you doing* etc..even for 5-15 minutes...they helps reassure the love
[2009/02/17 9:42] ***SL***: that helps*
[2009/02/17 9:43] ***SS2***: so if your pet was with someone else in the middle of something ...
[2009/02/17 9:44] ***SS2***: and you ***OW*** or Pirate logged on
[2009/02/17 9:44] Pirate Russell: Well, if I'm deep in a scene with ***IM***, and My batla, for instance, logs on, she has the respect to wait for an opening, but still get some IM attention, for sure.
[2009/02/17 9:44] ***OW***: I have a long way to go...myself in capturing the essence of the multiamorous relationship...I am Epicurean in my standards of lust and pleasure. I am patient, I can stand to get to know a submissive for months before I collar her, perhaps that is my undoing...I tend to not synchronize my desires with the time speed of SL.
[2009/02/17 9:44] ***SS2***: would you expect then to get to you asap if you said so?
[2009/02/17 9:45] Pirate Russell: My girls adhere to My rules, one of which, is: Rule 4) When I'm in game, you will be available to Me, unconditionally. This does not mean you will be at My feet 24 X 7, but if I want you, you WILL come! I do make allowances for SL work, being with friends, subs, etc.
[2009/02/17 9:45] ***OW***: I would ask of them what their current situation is. I would not want a bevvy of disrespectful furies flittering about. It would reflect badly on my Mastering them if I forced them to come running when I logged in. I would consider their current situation and make my decision accordingly.
[2009/02/17 9:45] Pirate Russell: Yes I expect them to come to Me immediately, if summoned, but I am sensitive to their plights, when I log on
[2009/02/17 9:45] ***IM***: girl want's Mistress to be happy more than anything else, so girl is happy when Mistress is happy. girl couldn't be upset that Mistress is doing something that makes Her happy.
[2009/02/17 9:46] ***SL***: good answer ***IM***...thats how it should be
[2009/02/17 9:46] ***SS2*** smiles
[2009/02/17 9:46] ***OW***: Which is why I have not had experience...I do not know what I would expect in terms of multiamory.
[2009/02/17 9:46] Pirate Russell: ***IM*** in the nearly year We've been together, how many times have I insisted girl drop everything and come to Me
[2009/02/17 9:47] ***IM***: It would be silly to expect that girl could be all things to Mistress, as it would be silly to expect anyone to be all things to anyone else. Mistress finds other things other places.
[2009/02/17 9:47] ***OW***: I have many years of one on one experience....but I needed some insight from a friend who has had experience in terms of multiamory.
[2009/02/17 9:47] Pirate Russell: As does girl
[2009/02/17 9:47] ***IM***: girl thinks it was just once or twice, Mistress, that you insisted on girl's attention immediately.
[2009/02/17 9:48] ***SL***: I own 9 or 10 girls..most of them ponygirls, they know if I am in play with one of My neko's or another...regardless what we are doing, they can ask to watch only...otherwise not to interrupt, and them all cometo Me when summoned, I've got 2 girls in collar for almost 2 years now..
[2009/02/17 9:48] ***OW*** nods and listens.
[2009/02/17 9:49] Pirate Russell: Goes back to Heinein's definition of love, girl's happiness is something I require for My happiness
[2009/02/17 9:49] ***SS2***: bloody hell I am so in the minority being monogamous , polyamory scares the shit outa me
[2009/02/17 9:50] ***SL***: but when I been owned...being a switch...the Mistress' I've had have always been busy building or scripting...and only has time for Her girls that can do the same..so I have felt left out...but not jealous...just pissed off for not even a hello, hug or kiss
[2009/02/17 9:50] Pirate Russell: Well, I am thankfully, capable of being in love with more than one person at a time!
[2009/02/17 9:50] ***IM***: girl doesn't think she could have done it if both relationships haden't grow at the same time, ***SS2***. It still feels funny.
[2009/02/17 9:50] Pirate Russell: yes, that is NOT My style of Dominance, either, I understand, ***SL***
[2009/02/17 9:51] ***SL***: thank You Miss....
[2009/02/17 9:51] ***SL***: as I say ***OW***...my opinion..as long as they get that reassurance...even for a short amount of time..thats important
[2009/02/17 9:52] Pirate Russell: Now I won't lie.... My time is very rarely My own, but each of My girls understands that if I wanna go hang out at Members' Day here, that I don't love them any less
[2009/02/17 9:53] ***IM*** nods
[2009/02/17 9:53] ***OW***: Thank you kindly ***SL***. I think the most important aspect of this was to get opinion from sound minded individuals. I sometimes dislike finding my own way blind through something I have not experienced...though in other cases, blind learning is the best way to strengthen oneself...through mistakes.
[2009/02/17 9:54] ***SL***: yes...as long as those mistakes aren't to costly in the end...and it does good to talk to othes with experience atleast as a guide or to strengthen your own thoughts
[2009/02/17 9:55] ***SL***: I love each of My girls and I know they love Me....but I have a hard time finding my own desires to be filled
[2009/02/17 9:55] Pirate Russell: Uh oh, ***OW***, I am DEFINATELY not of sound mind!
[2009/02/17 9:56] ***SS2***: laughs
[2009/02/17 9:56] ***SL***: lol
[2009/02/17 9:56] ***SL***: well You foold use Miss...lol
[2009/02/17 9:56] ***SL***: fooled us*
[2009/02/17 9:56] Pirate Russell: He he
[2009/02/17 9:56] ***SS2***: Pirate can rp sanity really well
[2009/02/17 9:56] ***SS2*** grins
[2009/02/17 9:56] ***IM***: Sometimes it's like cooking; hard work and an occational splash of hot oil, but in the end the good meal makes it worth it. girl may have pangs because she's not with Mistress but knowing she's happy makes it worth it.
[2009/02/17 9:57] ***SL*** makes sure all my keys are hidden :)
[2009/02/17 9:57] ***OW***: I am not here to cast any type of judgement on one's personality. I am here to gain the fruits of knowledge from one fellow Dom to another. While I do think the humor is important, I respect your words this afternoon even more and hope to carry this knowledge with me. Thusly, you are still a sound individual, should you care for the title or not.
[2009/02/17 9:58] Pirate Russell: Please ***OW***, I feel no judgement, at all
[2009/02/17 9:58] ***SL***: smiles...well said ***IM*** and ***OW***
[2009/02/17 9:58] ***SL***: its been a good discussion Miss Pirate...
[2009/02/17 9:58] ***SS2***: yes thanks Pirate
[2009/02/17 9:59] ***OW***: No worries at all, Pirate.
[2009/02/17 9:59] Pirate Russell: It is MY pleasure, also there's a GOOD website/podcast regarding Polyamory
[2009/02/17 9:59] Pirate Russell: http://polyweekly.com
[2009/02/17 9:59] ***SS2***: ahh cheers for that too
[2009/02/17 10:00] ***OW***: Much obliged.
[2009/02/17 10:00] Pirate Russell: I think, I'm making sure its the right URL
[2009/02/17 10:00] Pirate Russell: Yep, that's it!
[2009/02/17 10:00] ***SL*** throws a bottle of rum to Miss Pirate.. *grins*
[2009/02/17 10:00] ***SS2***: bloody hell I hope its plastic
[2009/02/17 10:00] ***SL***: lol
[2009/02/17 10:01] Pirate Russell: ARR... and if any are willing to tip, please go to West of Ireland, and donate it to Project Children
[2009/02/17 10:01] Pirate Russell had a scholarship to College to play first base, and can STILL catch!
[2009/02/17 10:01] ***SS2*** grins
[2009/02/17 10:01] Pirate Russell: Sorry ***SS2***, to "University"
[2009/02/17 10:01] ***SS2***: ahh its ok I speak American sometimes
[2009/02/17 10:02] Pirate Russell: Good for girl!
[2009/02/17 10:02] ***SS2***: well I get it at least
[2009/02/17 10:02] ***SL***: ***SS2***....I wouldn't want to be on the end of the paddle for hitting Her...but any other ways.. is ok:)
[2009/02/17 10:02] ***SS2***: lol
[2009/02/17 10:02] ***SS2***: got a dictionary
[2009/02/17 10:02] ***SS2***: ha one day she will paddle me for my cheek
[2009/02/17 10:02] ***IM*** giggles about Miss Pirate only being at first base.
[2009/02/17 10:02] ***SS2***: haha
[2009/02/17 10:03] Pirate Russell can get to 3rd base right quick, li'l one!
[2009/02/17 10:03] ***IM***: meep
[2009/02/17 10:03] ***SS2***: how many are there?
[2009/02/17 10:03] Pirate Russell: imremove shirt
[2009/02/17 10:03] Pirate Russell: imremove pelvis
[2009/02/17 10:03] ***IM*** wimpers
[2009/02/17 10:03] ***SL***: I would imagine Miss Pirate could hit a home run fairly quickly too
[2009/02/17 10:03] Pirate Russell: That'll make it MUCH easier
[2009/02/17 10:04] ***SS2***: ahh I take it that is alll the way
[2009/02/17 10:04] Pirate Russell: Thanks, ***SL***, I think
[2009/02/17 10:04] Pirate Russell: Yes, hun
[2009/02/17 10:04] ***SS2***: see I catch on
[2009/02/17 10:04] ***SL***: Your welcome...and it was meant to be good
[2009/02/17 10:04] Pirate Russell: first base is kiss, 2nd base is boobs, 3rd base is feeling up, and home run is going ALL the way!
[2009/02/17 10:05] ***SL***: yep yep :)
[2009/02/17 10:05] ***SS2***: sounds thrilling
[2009/02/17 10:05] ***SS2***: maybe I should emigrate
[2009/02/17 10:05] ***SS2***: lol
[2009/02/17 10:05] Pirate Russell: Now in Cricket, I'm not sure about the sticky wicket
[2009/02/17 10:05] ***SS2***: yeah there is that
[2009/02/17 10:05] Pirate Russell: W/we can play a game or two, 'till girl gets the hang of it!
[2009/02/17 10:05] ***SS2***: well thanks Pirate
[2009/02/17 10:05] ***IM*** giggles
[2009/02/17 10:06] ***KC*** giggles
[2009/02/17 10:06] ***SS2***: and you know if I ever try bi
[2009/02/17 10:06] Pirate Russell: Just in the interest of International Relations
[2009/02/17 10:06] ***SS2***: it has to be you
[2009/02/17 10:06] ***SL***: a sticky wicket...sounds like someone needs to change underwear
[2009/02/17 10:06] ***SS2*** grins
[2009/02/17 10:07] ***SL*** looks at ***IM***.....I think any girl in collar or not...should be proud to kneel before You Miss Pirate
[2009/02/17 10:08] ***KC*** nods
[2009/02/17 10:08] ***IM*** nods to ***SL***
[2009/02/17 10:09] Pirate Russell strokes Her treasure's hair, proudly!
[2009/02/17 10:09] Pirate Russell guesses class has been over for a while now... he he
[2009/02/17 10:10] ***SS2***: cheers Pirate
[2009/02/17 10:10] ***KC***: great discussion as always Miss
[2009/02/17 10:10] ***SS2***: I guess ill go for a spot of profile reading at hovvy
[2009/02/17 10:10] Pirate Russell: My pleasure, ***SS2***
[2009/02/17 10:10] ***SS2***: see who has what alt these days
[2009/02/17 10:10] ***OW***: I love to profile read as well.
[2009/02/17 10:10] ***SS2***: Ive read yours often ***OW***
[2009/02/17 10:11] ***SS2***: hehe
[2009/02/17 10:11] ***SL***: MIss Pirate do You require Your girls to speak in 3rd person ...or is it they own option they do so?
[2009/02/17 10:11] ***OW***: I've glanced at yours as well, dear ***SS2***.
[2009/02/17 10:11] ***SS2*** chuckles
[2009/02/17 10:11] ***SS2***: yay
[2009/02/17 10:11] ***SJ***: trys not to blush as she is reading profile as everyone speaks
[2009/02/17 10:12] ***SS2***: lol Shine
[2009/02/17 10:12] ***SS2***: dont you hate an empty profile
[2009/02/17 10:12] ***SJ***: yez
[2009/02/17 10:12] Pirate Russell: Nope, it helps me cull out the rejects, ***SS2***!
[2009/02/17 10:12] ***OW***: Empty profile is like finding shit hidden in a sea of gold.
[2009/02/17 10:12] ***OW***: Oh, excuse me.
[2009/02/17 10:12] ***IM***: Mistress requires it, Miss ***SL***.
[2009/02/17 10:12] ***SS2***: laughs
[2009/02/17 10:12] ***SJ***: lol priate yez good poit
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***OW***: I was thinking aloud.
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***SL***: thank you ***IM*** :)
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***SJ***: lol
[2009/02/17 10:13] Pet Freenote laughs at ***OW***'s outside voice
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***SL***: well wishes every...beena pleasure meeting and talking to all of you..
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***KC*** shouts: goodbye Miss Pirate E/everyone. goodbye sis ***IM***
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***SL***: wishes everyone*
[2009/02/17 10:13] Pirate Russell: Ciao for now!
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***OW***: Be well ***SL***.
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***SS2***: see ya soon ***SL***
[2009/02/17 10:13] ***SS2***: good to see you again
[2009/02/17 10:14] ***SL***: ok ***SS2***...nice to see you again too :)
[2009/02/17 10:14] ***SS2***: and ill pop by your place
[2009/02/17 10:14] ***SL***: smiles..anytime hun
[2009/02/17 10:14] ***SL***: ....
[2009/02/17 10:14] ***SJ***: ty pirate