Advanced Emoting 1/6/09

[0:41] Srilania Svoboda: Ok, please take all cross talk to IM, and all collar, etc commands to the secondary channels!
[0:41] Srilania Svoboda: Please also turn off or remove any radar, scanners, or sleep Mystitools so lag is reduced.
[0:41] Srilania Svoboda: Welcome to House of V's College of Kink! I'm the Newd Teacher, Srilania Svoboda, and your instructor for this lesson.
[0:42] Srilania Svoboda: While I have only been in Second life for about six months, I have been about in the real world for many years, as well as out in other realms of the internet, as a submissive, then became a Domme, which I have done for about 5 years.
[0:42] Srilania Svoboda: For any that need to leave early, all transcripts can be found at http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com
[0:42] Srilania Svoboda: The lesson for today is Advanced Emoting
[0:42] Srilania Svoboda: Or
[0:42] Srilania Svoboda: "How do I make another experience this without being there?"
[0:42] Srilania Svoboda: This class will require participation.
[0:42] ***LM***: lmrelease
[0:43] Srilania Svoboda: What's the one problem with the internet?
[0:43] Srilania Svoboda: Besides not enough porn!
[0:43] Srilania Svoboda: The biggest problem we have is no matter what we do or where we go online, you are still you, sitting in front of a computer banging away on a keyboard.
[0:43] Srilania Svoboda: You aren't able to dive into those cool waters. You aren't able to feel that delicious breast in your hand, unable to feel that skin.
[0:43] Srilania Svoboda: You're still touching hard plastic keys, mice, and sitting in a chair.
[0:43] Srilania Svoboda: But, you have a tool that's been handed to you. the largets sex toy and sex organ in the human body.
[0:44] Srilania Svoboda: NO, not the Ultra Vibe Pleasure 4000 that's gas powered and kickstarted.
[0:44] Srilania Svoboda: NO! Not that one eyed trouser snake living in your pants!
[0:44] Srilania Svoboda: Your BRAIN! Your MIND.
[0:44] Srilania Svoboda: So tonight, let's explore how to entrance the mind so your partner half a world away can almost feel your nails clawing their skin.
[0:44] Srilania Svoboda: I know. You're all thinking "I'm not a writer. How can i come up with ways to describe things like that?"
[0:44] Srilania Svoboda: It's actually quite easy.
[0:45] Srilania Svoboda: First thing, relax. Take some deep breaths, and get comfy. Now, close your eyes and genly, feather soft, run your nails down your necks.
[0:45] Srilania Svoboda: Do this now
[0:45] ***PS*** shivers a bit
[0:45] Srilania Svoboda: How did that feel? Ticklish? Chilly? Did the nails make a sound on you guy's stubble?
[0:46] Srilania Svoboda: Sorry, one guy here only.
[0:46] ***DL***: oh, ah y
[0:46] Srilania Svoboda: Describe it.
[0:46] Srilania Svoboda: Dave?
[0:46] ***DL***: well, a scratchy sound
[0:46] Srilania Svoboda: kara?
[0:46] ***DL***: rough, prickly, sandpaper
[0:47] ***KB***: no sound, a light tickle
[0:47] Srilania Svoboda: We'll skip jen a moment as she's away
[0:47] Srilania Svoboda: Jojo?
[0:47] ***JD***: smooth, tingly and exciting
[0:47] Srilania Svoboda: Keisha?
[0:48] ***KN***: the sound of latex on latex, like two balloons rubbing together
[0:48] Srilania Svoboda: Jinx, if it can be done without breaking orders?
[0:48] ***JM***: woof woof!! hoooowwwllll
[0:48] Srilania Svoboda: if not, woof
[0:48] Srilania Svoboda: Jen?
[0:49] Srilania Svoboda: Philbert?
[0:49] ***PS***: Smooth... soft, and tingley Mistress
[0:49] Srilania Svoboda: Mina?
[0:49] ***JF***n: kinda burnt a little
[0:49] ***MK***: a cold chill down my back making me arch upward
[0:50] Srilania Svoboda: We all see we processed that a little differently, even though it was the same thing
[0:50] Srilania Svoboda: Now, try touching something cold. maybe a glass of water, an ice cube, or a piece of metal. Think about how it feels.
[0:51] Srilania Svoboda: Don't wait for me to ask. Just spout it off
[0:51] ***DL***: heavy and wet
[0:51] ***KN***: long, hard and smooth
[0:51] ***KB***: cold and hard and wet
[0:52] ***PS***: Cold and smooth
[0:52] ***JD***: hard, erotic and soothing
[0:52] ***JM*** shivers with a weak woof
[0:52] Srilania Svoboda: Now, put that cold hand on some warm part of your body.
[0:52] ***JF***n: smooth, hard, not actually that cold
[0:52] Srilania Svoboda: How does your hand feel on that? How does that part feel to your hand?
[0:53] ***PS***: my hand feels warmer... my forearm is cooler
[0:53] Srilania Svoboda: Again, don't wait for me to ask. Just speak up
[0:53] ***DL***: a cold wet shock
[0:53] ***JD***: sensual
[0:53] ***JM*** yelps in surprise as the chill spreads across her thigh
[0:53] ***MK***: my hand tingles, still cold even when pulled away.
[0:53] Srilania Svoboda giggles at the pup
[0:54] Srilania Svoboda: sometimes, people need to experience something in real life to describe it in an emote.
[0:54] Srilania Svoboda: NO. Don't go shooting yourself in the leg to find out how that feels.
[0:54] ***JD***: sharpness but tingles
[0:54] ***KN***: ripping and searing pain, heat and burning
[0:55] ***KB***: ((if you ever rp'd with a virgin you would know just how true that is))
[0:55] Srilania Svoboda: We don;t need me getting sued for medical bills claiming I told you to shoot yourself to see how it feels in order to describe it
[0:55] ***PS*** nods
[0:55] Srilania Svoboda: However, if you find you're having trouble describing the sensations, doing some things within sanity is not a bad idea.
[0:55] Srilania Svoboda: Go to the park and smell the grass. Take a swim. Yes, go OUTSIDE.
[0:55] Srilania Svoboda: But, some things can be experienced right there. smack your butt with your hand.
[0:56] Srilania Svoboda: Do it and describe it
[0:56] Srilania Svoboda: Jinx, do it with your paw
[0:56] ***KB***: stings ... doesn't really hurt at all
[0:56] ***JF***n: kinda jiggly and makes my hand sting
[0:56] ***DL***: a heavy soft thud
[0:56] ***JD***: tingles again, but had my butt smacked enough to know i enjoy it :)
[0:57] ***DL***: maybe I need to do it harder
[0:57] ***PS***: A clap, and a light sting
[0:57] Srilania Svoboda: I did say smack, not tap
[0:57] ***MK***: a kind of heat after the inital sting
[0:57] ***KN***: don't punch it Dave, smack it :p
[0:57] ***KB***: ((harder Dave, harder))
[0:58] ***JM*** smacks her butt with her paw with a whimper, the sharp slap sound reverbating thru her ears as a warm glow spreads across her latex covered cheek
[0:58] ***PS***: A thud, softy. a warmness where my hand hit, and a slight jolt in my elbow
[0:58] Srilania Svoboda: Try to find ways to spice things up just by knowing what you are describing.
[0:59] Srilania Svoboda: See, you're doing it already. Though i think Jinx is an old pro at it
[0:59] Srilania Svoboda: Also, asking others to talk about how it feels for them on things can help. Even if they can't find all the words, just the general idea of the sensation will point you in the right direction.
[0:59] ***JD***: sorry all real life issue, hoping to be able to come right back
[0:59] Srilania Svoboda: But, just jamming in a ton of descriptions isn't good either.This can clutter and confuse the entire thing, and send annoyances instead of deliciousness.
[0:59] Srilania Svoboda: This can also cause the huge wall of text as described in our basic Emoting class.
[0:59] Srilania Svoboda: Best thing to do is limit it to one form of stimulus per emote.
[0:59] Srilania Svoboda: this allows the stimulation time to grab the mind enough that the sensation can actually be felt. However, if there are sensations that do compliment it, such as the smell and taste, or sight and sound, mix them, but carefully.
[1:00] Srilania Svoboda: With practice, you will eventually find the proper mix of sensations.
[1:00] Srilania Svoboda: One other thing that may help is taking a break.
[1:00] Srilania Svoboda: No, don't stop in mid thrust for 20 minutes to find that place.
[1:00] ***KB***: ((please dont))
[1:00] Srilania Svoboda: That would get your partner either dry or limp
[1:00] ***PS***: and bored as well...
[1:01] Srilania Svoboda: And not very much fun for ANYONE
[1:01] Srilania Svoboda: Just before you get into the scene, and if you're having trouble finding the right words, stop a moment and picture it in your head.
[1:01] Srilania Svoboda: Close your eyes. Picture it in your head. What do you see? Hear? Taste? Smell? Feel?
[1:01] Srilania Svoboda: try using those to keep the picture in your head alive as you play the scene out, even taking 10-20 seconds before responding to picture it.
[1:02] Srilania Svoboda: This is exactly how I do emotes in a scene. I picture it in my head what the person did, then I imagine my response. ONLY then do I go ahead and emote it, like playing a movie and pausing it to type out what is going on in it
[1:02] Srilania Svoboda: And lastly, don't get discouraged if you try and it doesn't work at first.
[1:03] Srilania Svoboda: it takes practice practice practice. Like riding a bike, or swinging a bullwhip without whipping your face.
[1:03] Srilania Svoboda: Keep trying, and soon you'll have everyone lining up to your play space for a taste of your delicious emotes.
[1:03] Srilania Svoboda: Questions, opinions, feelings?
[1:03] Srilania Svoboda: Anyone?
[1:04] ***PS*** lightly tossing the drumsticks end over end, the sticks clacking light as the fall into my hand...
[1:04] ***PS***: Sorry Mistress?
[1:04] ***DL***: I've only just caught up again. That was great
[1:04] Srilania Svoboda: Any questions dave?
[1:04] ***DL***: n. Practice practice
[1:05] Srilania Svoboda: Please feel free to feed the Teacher. I eat Linden Dollars as well as most types of blood, and the occasional stray victim!
[1:05] Srilania Svoboda: All transcripts can be found at http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com
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