[2008/09/02 7:08] Pirate Russell: Welcome to House of V's College of Kink!
[2008/09/02 7:08] Pirate Russell: My name is Pirate Russell, Head Mistress of the College, and today's instructor.
[2008/09/02 7:08] Pirate Russell: Today is going to be an open forum, questions and answers, etc. That means I didn't prepare anything for today LOL
[2008/09/02 7:08] ***CH***: :-(
[2008/09/02 7:09] ***TF*** smiles
[2008/09/02 7:09] Pirate Russell: Sorry, ***CH***, I'll return your entry fee! LOL
[2008/09/02 7:09] ***GH***: haha
[2008/09/02 7:09] ***CH***: haha
[2008/09/02 7:10] Pirate Russell: Anyone have questions about anything at all?
[2008/09/02 7:10] Pirate Russell: Well, thanks for coming... he he
[2008/09/02 7:10] ***GH***: haha
[2008/09/02 7:10] Zealot Benmergui: well, I have something by way of a conversation topic...
[2008/09/02 7:11] Pirate Russell: Go ahead Zealot
[2008/09/02 7:11] Zealot Benmergui: Summer is coming to an end, lots of changes in many people's schedules...
[2008/09/02 7:11] Zealot Benmergui: MAy be a good time to discuss the importance of time management in D/s online...
[2008/09/02 7:12] Pirate Russell: True, not only less time in some cases more time online
[2008/09/02 7:12] Pirate Russell: I know some college students that dont' have broadband access at home, so they drop out of SL for the summer
[2008/09/02 7:13] ***RJ***: I'm not so worried about how much time but the quality of time spent in SL.
[2008/09/02 7:13] Zealot Benmergui: plus there is always the parent effect...suddenly the kids are back in school, and the rules change
[2008/09/02 7:13] Zealot Benmergui: nods to Miss ***RJ***...but the amount of time, and the freedom of that time, always has an effect
[2008/09/02 7:13] Pirate Russell: For Me it maifests in My kids are back from grandparents for the summer, and I have every 2nd week in SL, and the weeks with them, I'm not on during the day at all
[2008/09/02 7:15] Zealot Benmergui: nods...times like these always remind me of what I feel is the most important single rule in Online D/s...Rl trumps EVERYTHING
[2008/09/02 7:15] Pirate Russell: Oh, yess! I have 7 rules for My girls, Rule #1 is RL COMES FIRST!
[2008/09/02 7:15] Zealot Benmergui: I have seen to many people do stupid things, or tolerate stupid things, but losing sight of that rule
[2008/09/02 7:15] Zealot Benmergui: *by
[2008/09/02 7:16] Pirate Russell: My girls are good about giving Me reasons, but all I 'need' is them to say, "Rule 1" and they can log, go afk, whatever, with no penalty
[2008/09/02 7:16] ***eL***: hi
[2008/09/02 7:17] Zealot Benmergui: nods..it is essential, and saves much grief down the line...
[2008/09/02 7:17] Pirate Russell: it sure does,
[2008/09/02 7:18] Zealot Benmergui: we all see the stories on the mainstream news about "internet addicts" breaking up households nad moving cross country to find out the beautiful, tormented divorcee they thought they were saving is actually a 53 year old man named Kevin
[2008/09/02 7:18] ***AR***: chuckles loudly
[2008/09/02 7:18] Pirate Russell: I'm only 50, and My name is NOT Kevin!
[2008/09/02 7:18] ***AR***: haha
[2008/09/02 7:18] ***CH***: oops:-(
[2008/09/02 7:18] ***AR***: Laughs
[2008/09/02 7:18] Zealot Benmergui: You didn't say that on the video, you BASTARD
[2008/09/02 7:19] ***GH***: haha
[2008/09/02 7:19] Pirate Russell: Sorry, forgot!
[2008/09/02 7:19] ***AR***: rais a eyebow ;)
[2008/09/02 7:19] Zealot Benmergui: my bad, I couldn;t hear you over the vocoder
[2008/09/02 7:19] ***CH***: ??
[2008/09/02 7:19] ***AR***: raise*
[2008/09/02 7:19] Pirate Russell: Anyway, I can expand on the RL First thing, part of My Rule 1, is that EVERYONE is to have fun!
[2008/09/02 7:20] Zealot Benmergui: nods
[2008/09/02 7:20] Pirate Russell: Rule 1b) Since this is a game, if you're not having fun, tell Me, we'll do something else, or we'll play separately for a while, or for good. But please TELL ME!
[2008/09/02 7:20] ***AR***: raise a hand
[2008/09/02 7:20] Zealot Benmergui whispers..She is going to bang on about communication now..just watch
[2008/09/02 7:20] Pirate Russell: I hate when girls just show up, toss the collar in the sand and say I'm leaving....
[2008/09/02 7:20] Pirate Russell: Dang it Zealot!
[2008/09/02 7:20] ***AR***: I am here to have fun, indeed, but I dont take it as a game
[2008/09/02 7:21] Pirate Russell: The "Tell Me" part is important as hell to Me
[2008/09/02 7:21] Zealot Benmergui: two different things love...
[2008/09/02 7:21] Pirate Russell: Yes, Aiko, I wrote that almost 3 yrs ago, and I agree
[2008/09/02 7:21] Pirate Russell: It does bear updating
[2008/09/02 7:21] Zealot Benmergui: it always reminds me of a line from Spenser...."When Work is Play for Mortal Stakes..."
[2008/09/02 7:21] ***GH***: i have never taken SL as a game,,,its my life and im not a pixel
[2008/09/02 7:22] Pirate Russell: I have closer relationships here
[2008/09/02 7:22] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:22] ***IM*** smiles
[2008/09/02 7:22] Pirate Russell: Most of Pirate is Me, though I'm not a Lesbian or a Domme in RL
[2008/09/02 7:22] ***CH***: thats good ...
[2008/09/02 7:22] Zealot Benmergui sighs as another fantasy hits the pavement
[2008/09/02 7:22] ***GH*** giggles
[2008/09/02 7:22] ***CH***: ohhh
[2008/09/02 7:22] ***IM*** frowns
[2008/09/02 7:22] ***TF*** watches ***CH*** closely
[2008/09/02 7:23] ***TF*** giggles
[2008/09/02 7:23] Pirate Russell: But My releationships here are as real as those I have at work... or elsewhere in "Real Life"
[2008/09/02 7:23] Zealot Benmergui: nods...emotions are real..if they aren;t go play slingo or something
[2008/09/02 7:23] Pirate Russell: And Zealot, what is the biggest part of these relationships???
[2008/09/02 7:24] Zealot Benmergui: all the more reason to keep a firm perspective about rl...since things can be so potent here
[2008/09/02 7:24] ***GH***: well you cant put your feelings in a box and forget them when you hit the sign out button or forget thepeople in your life
[2008/09/02 7:24] ***TF***: but some people do just role play here
[2008/09/02 7:24] ***CH***: i dont like relationship-games here:-((
[2008/09/02 7:24] Zealot Benmergui: ummm...my first thought would be bartending...but I will have to go with What is Communication, Alex
[2008/09/02 7:24] Pirate Russell: Yes, things are compressed here, it's almost like dog-years
[2008/09/02 7:25] Pirate Russell: he he, yep, Communication, there's no real body language or facial expressions here.
[2008/09/02 7:25] Zealot Benmergui: no tone...it is so easy to be brutally hurt by what someone meant to be light teasing
[2008/09/02 7:25] Pirate Russell: likewise there's no helping with chores, or working in the yard together, at least not in MY roleplay!
[2008/09/02 7:25] ***TF*** smiles
[2008/09/02 7:26] Zealot Benmergui takes Do the Literbox off Aiko's list
[2008/09/02 7:26] ***CH***: i am just me.. difficult enough
[2008/09/02 7:26] ***AR*** notice its fullmoon, take a bite of Zealots tighs, mmmm yummy
[2008/09/02 7:26] ***AR***: what bow?
[2008/09/02 7:26] ***AR***: box*
[2008/09/02 7:26] Zealot Benmergui: *smiles and pets the little wildcat
[2008/09/02 7:27] ***eL***: ladies im listening very attentivement your words
[2008/09/02 7:27] ***eL***: great to be here
[2008/09/02 7:27] ***eL***: i must go
[2008/09/02 7:27] ***GH*** smiles warmly
[2008/09/02 7:27] Zealot Benmergui: emotions here can be so potent sometimes I feel the need to remind people, as sweet as something may be online it will not fix everyting rl...you can;t find rescue from any bad situation in real life by fleeing into second life..or pretending that your love here will solve your problems there
[2008/09/02 7:27] ***TF***: take care ema
[2008/09/02 7:27] ***eL***: but i hope there will be more meetings
[2008/09/02 7:28] ***eL***: thanks so much
[2008/09/02 7:28] ***AR***: agreed
[2008/09/02 7:28] ***eL***: bye ladies
[2008/09/02 7:28] Pirate Russell: yes, emma Zealot has a clas Monday @ 6, I have this one and FRIDAY at 1
[2008/09/02 7:28] ***TF***: Zealot are we saying that everyone in SL is deeply involved
[2008/09/02 7:28] ***CH***: but it can help to solve rl problems
[2008/09/02 7:28] ***TF***: that there isn't people who just logon, play and logoff?
[2008/09/02 7:28] ***CH***: if you have good friends in here
[2008/09/02 7:28] ***AR***: if you do not have a good rl life sl will not getting better, just my meaning
[2008/09/02 7:29] Zealot Benmergui: there are some..but around here, not so many
[2008/09/02 7:29] ***TF***: and there must be people in between
[2008/09/02 7:29] ***GH***: it can soothe them by having real people giving you support with your rl issues
[2008/09/02 7:29] ***TF***: so what we are talking about is people who try to live in SL?
[2008/09/02 7:29] Pirate Russell: I do have good friends here. I consider My girls good friends, and all have given Me good councel, and I support them thru health and releationsip problems, even if only by being a shoulder to cry on!
[2008/09/02 7:29] ***CH***: i am glad to have found a few freiends in her
[2008/09/02 7:29] Zealot Benmergui: I would think you were right, but I find that saying that there are those kind of people is like saying you tried crystal meth once, and decided to stick with beer
[2008/09/02 7:30] ***TF*** ponders
[2008/09/02 7:30] ***AR***: when I did enter sl, I was deepli in love with a man, I thought after some month, I not was happy in rl, just because I did fall in love, I did realised it not was true
[2008/09/02 7:30] Zealot Benmergui: it can be potent and powerful and often you are much more deeply involved then you ever thought you would be
[2008/09/02 7:30] ***AR***: I was happy in rl.........I have learn about that
[2008/09/02 7:31] ***AR***: I love Zealot, but I have a rl I love too and both give me alot
[2008/09/02 7:31] Zealot Benmergui: nods...a lot of people try to blame life online for their troubles..or think that things here will save them
[2008/09/02 7:31] ***TF***: I want to make sure I understand. I feel in love with SL when I entered this world.
[2008/09/02 7:31] ***TF***: You are saying that all people do this?
[2008/09/02 7:31] Pirate Russell: Well, if it weren't for the Lindens, I'd not have My best friend (after Hubby).
[2008/09/02 7:32] Zealot Benmergui: smiles at Aiko...all things in their proper place, my dear
[2008/09/02 7:32] ***TF***: I would think greifers are a counter example.
[2008/09/02 7:32] ***AR***: you agree with me Master, smiles
[2008/09/02 7:32] Zealot Benmergui considers...ALl, no, there is nothing ALL people do, save die.
[2008/09/02 7:32] Zealot Benmergui: but I would venture a good percentage
[2008/09/02 7:32] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:33] Pirate Russell: Crash in SL!
[2008/09/02 7:33] Zealot Benmergui: of course I do, my Aiko...
[2008/09/02 7:33] ***SG*** leans back and kicks up feet listening to the convo,,,,
[2008/09/02 7:33] ***TF***: some of those lose track of RL
[2008/09/02 7:33] ***AR***: smiles up to you
[2008/09/02 7:33] ***SG*** its called sl addiction
[2008/09/02 7:34] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:34] ***SG*** they gt lost in the game
[2008/09/02 7:34] Zealot Benmergui: there are certainly enough people who let Sl take on great force for them, that internet addiction is a new cottage industry
[2008/09/02 7:34] ***SG*** becomes there world stead of rl
[2008/09/02 7:34] Pirate Russell: yes, but those are usually the same people that get lost in a bottle, or gambling, or something, too!
[2008/09/02 7:34] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:34] Zealot Benmergui: an addictive personality is an addictive personality
[2008/09/02 7:34] ***SG*** not always,,,, or its boredom
[2008/09/02 7:35] Pirate Russell: Yes, actually My father's been AA for 35ish years.... he doens't drink, but is addicted to the meethings
[2008/09/02 7:35] ***SG*** i know of a few that are in wheelchairs,,,, stay at home in pain,, they come on here to escape and do what they cannot in rl
[2008/09/02 7:35] ***AR***: and that is a good thing , Sable :)
[2008/09/02 7:35] Zealot Benmergui: nods..and that is a wonderful thing about Sl, but not really in the same realm as what we are discussing...
[2008/09/02 7:35] Pirate Russell: And some that have physical deformities, I know one girl that had burns to her face
[2008/09/02 7:35] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:35] ***SG*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:36] Zealot Benmergui: those are people who depend on Sl for a certain kind of stimulus, and it is great for that
[2008/09/02 7:36] ***SG*** sl has many uses,,,,
[2008/09/02 7:36] Zealot Benmergui: same as it is a wonderful place for people wuo suffer from Ausbergers
[2008/09/02 7:36] Pirate Russell: Or one that's nearly deaf.
[2008/09/02 7:36] ***TF*** smiles warmly
[2008/09/02 7:36] ***SG*** i come on to kill people,,, in nor,, its a great stress relief *GIGGLES* :)~~~~ giggles teasingly
[2008/09/02 7:36] ***SG*** na i do combat sims
[2008/09/02 7:36] ***GH***: haha sable
[2008/09/02 7:36] ***AR***: yesss, Zea so true
[2008/09/02 7:37] ***IM***: Or want to own a slave.
[2008/09/02 7:37] Zealot Benmergui: nothing wrong with the combat sims if that is what you are into...all fantasy is fair game
[2008/09/02 7:37] ***SG*** i dont get the slave thing
[2008/09/02 7:37] Pirate Russell: Yes, but most all of what W/we do here is stuff we can't, or dont', do in RL
[2008/09/02 7:37] ***AR***: or submid a man giggles
[2008/09/02 7:37] ***TF*** giggles
[2008/09/02 7:37] Pirate Russell: What do you mean, Sable
[2008/09/02 7:37] ***SG*** im sorry it just erks me to no end,, i know people are into that,, gracie brought me here so i can get understanding,,,, kicks up feet but ,,,, im not,,,
[2008/09/02 7:37] ***GH*** hides her face,,,
[2008/09/02 7:38] ***TF***: It is okay.
[2008/09/02 7:38] ***SG*** hey u said it was open discussion *GIGGLES* :)~~~~
[2008/09/02 7:38] Pirate Russell: Today's a bad class for that... Friday I'm doing a class on power exchange
[2008/09/02 7:38] ***AR***: what do u not get Sable?
[2008/09/02 7:38] ***SG*** im not a sub or a dom pirate,,, im just here for support and understanding
[2008/09/02 7:38] ***AR***: about this slave thing?
[2008/09/02 7:38] ***SG*** yeah
[2008/09/02 7:38] Zealot Benmergui: if it doesn;t speak to you, that is fine...put it under the heading of different strokes
[2008/09/02 7:38] ***AR***: please share :)
[2008/09/02 7:38] ***TF***: It is a state of mind in a sense.
[2008/09/02 7:39] ***SG*** got that rite zealot
[2008/09/02 7:39] ***SG*** is it now,,,
[2008/09/02 7:39] ***TF*** smiles
[2008/09/02 7:39] Pirate Russell: Same way I put combat sims, I know they're out there, but not My cup o' tea
[2008/09/02 7:40] ***TF***: or "space" sims
[2008/09/02 7:40] ***SG*** to me its about ownership,,, to be collard and tagged,,, i cant understand the whole senario,,, i know people that do it,,, i just dont understand why,,,, i believe people are equal,, to be the same,,, no one above no one under
[2008/09/02 7:40] Pirate Russell: or gor sims, and I'm glad y'all enjoy them
[2008/09/02 7:40] ***GH***: but sable,,,
[2008/09/02 7:40] ***SG***: to walk side by side not infront of or behind
[2008/09/02 7:41] ***GH***: the sub/slave chooses this life style and are not forced into it by any means
[2008/09/02 7:41] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:41] Pirate Russell: I agree sable, but I have accepted ibrew's gift of submission, of herself.
[2008/09/02 7:41] ***TF***: And there is a whole range of sub/slaves
[2008/09/02 7:41] ***IM*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:41] ***SG*** eh shrugs shoulders,,,, i guess its what floats ur boat
[2008/09/02 7:42] Pirate Russell: Same thing I feel about combat sims
[2008/09/02 7:42] ***TF*** nods "some people love danger"
[2008/09/02 7:42] ***GH***: and remeber sable,,,,
[2008/09/02 7:42] ***ML***: what if one just likes the domination in the bedroom but still likes to have a voice away from the bedroom .. does that make her less of a sub?
[2008/09/02 7:42] ***TF***: i will not be with them when they do that stuff
[2008/09/02 7:42] ***SG*** i am one of them ,,,
[2008/09/02 7:42] Pirate Russell: Not My choice for fun, but great that you like it!
[2008/09/02 7:42] ***SG*** same with the sub dom thingy
[2008/09/02 7:43] ***TF*** smiles "different strokes but they are side by side"
[2008/09/02 7:43] ***SG*** *GIGGLES* :)~~~~ toy
[2008/09/02 7:43] ***SG*** very true
[2008/09/02 7:44] ***TF***: So I am happy to watch my friends hang glide off a cliff. Don't ask me to do it.
[2008/09/02 7:45] ***GH***: there is always the mute button if the sub isnt happy and cant esolve any issues,you really dont do anything you dont want to do here,
[2008/09/02 7:45] ***TF***: ditto for being a sub.
[2008/09/02 7:45] Zealot Benmergui: It does raise an interesting point...does a Dominant consider a submissive to be inferior, or vice versa? To the mainstream eye, they would seem to..but
[2008/09/02 7:45] ***TF***: depends on the relationship
[2008/09/02 7:45] ***TF*** shivers
[2008/09/02 7:45] Pirate Russell: I do not. I feel a submissive, slave, pet, is far stronger than I!
[2008/09/02 7:46] Pirate Russell: I can't give Myself to someone else, to do with what they will.
[2008/09/02 7:46] Zealot Benmergui: nods...It takes a great deal more nerve then being a Dominant...
[2008/09/02 7:46] Zealot Benmergui: we live in a society that rewards and encourages dominance
[2008/09/02 7:46] Zealot Benmergui: being submissive flies in the face of a lot of things we are taught from birth in the modern world
[2008/09/02 7:46] ***AR*** listens intensely
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***ML***: its more of our self ego that has led us there
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***TF***: Really are you sure?
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***SG*** depends on ur definition of submission
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***TF***: right
[2008/09/02 7:47] Pirate Russell: That's true, some submissives are Drs, Lawyers, etc, that work harder all day and want to be out of that at night
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***SG*** some people take it as a rule over as a power tool over another person
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***TF***: power is always a two way street
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***SG*** submission isnt that at all,
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***AR***: I have power too as sub
[2008/09/02 7:47] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:48] Pirate Russell: Especially in SL submissives have a LOT of power!
[2008/09/02 7:48] ***TF***: The first one is the choice not to submit to another.
[2008/09/02 7:48] ***SG*** i call it pussy control
[2008/09/02 7:48] ***AR***: no
[2008/09/02 7:48] ***GH*** face turns red
[2008/09/02 7:48] ***ML***: but is up for the domme to make that decision if he choses so!!
[2008/09/02 7:48] ***AR***: not at all Sable
[2008/09/02 7:48] ***SG*** but hey its what ever u want to cal it,,,,
[2008/09/02 7:49] Pirate Russell: Especially in SL submissives have a LOT of power! Aiko can take off her collar, mute Zealot, and can ban him from her land. NOTHING he can do about it
[2008/09/02 7:49] ***SG*** gracie i love u,,,, i tried me did,, yall have a good day,,, take care and enjoy life,,,
[2008/09/02 7:49] ***AR***: if a woman can control by giving sex, then she has a weak Master, and I would run away
[2008/09/02 7:49] ***SG*** i dont have a need to be in someones control or to controll someone else,, have fun wit it
[2008/09/02 7:49] Pirate Russell: Thanks for coming by, Sable, yer welcome ANYtime!
[2008/09/02 7:49] ***GH***: love you to,muah,,,ty for coming
[2008/09/02 7:50] ***GH*** hides behind merc
[2008/09/02 7:50] Pirate Russell: I know she's gone, but isn't killing someone the ultimate control over them?
[2008/09/02 7:50] ***ML***: hehehe
[2008/09/02 7:50] ***AR***: think she only feel provokate by this lifestyle and dont try to understand it, always easier to judge
[2008/09/02 7:50] Zealot Benmergui: but I understand the point..."killing" someone on Sl is fire and forget..no real emotional resonence
[2008/09/02 7:51] ***ML***: pats kitties head.. cmere.. its gonna be oki
[2008/09/02 7:51] Pirate Russell: But still, it's power... making them go regenerate somewhere, or go back to the start of a maze, or whatever
[2008/09/02 7:51] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:53] Pirate Russell: Anything else????
[2008/09/02 7:53] ***TF*** twirls her hair
[2008/09/02 7:53] ***GH*** peeks from behind merc,,
[2008/09/02 7:53] ***JT***: If a Mistress or Master isn't giving a sub ANY attention, at what point should the sub say something
[2008/09/02 7:53] ***JT***: ?
[2008/09/02 7:54] Pirate Russell: As soon as the sub isn't having fun. YOu have the RIGHT to enjoy time on SL!
[2008/09/02 7:54] ***JT***: :-/
[2008/09/02 7:54] ***JT***: Thank you.
[2008/09/02 7:54] Pirate Russell: Now june's Dominant is gunning for Me! LOL
[2008/09/02 7:55] ***JT*** stifles a giggle.
[2008/09/02 7:55] ***TF***: he he
[2008/09/02 7:55] ***GH*** giggles
[2008/09/02 7:55] Pirate Russell: Seriously, on the blog is The submissives' Rights, and The Dominant's Responsibilities"
[2008/09/02 7:55] Pirate Russell: And it may be time to teach that class again soon, maybe next week or week after
[2008/09/02 7:56] Pirate Russell: Oh, sorry, the blog is http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com
[2008/09/02 7:56] Zealot Benmergui: It also has to do with rules...how much time is promised, how much is given...
[2008/09/02 7:56] ***JT***: IT's hard on SL when people reside in different time zones
[2008/09/02 7:56] Zealot Benmergui: no kidding
[2008/09/02 7:56] ***JT*** nods in thanks to Pirate
[2008/09/02 7:57] Pirate Russell: Negoiation is key at the start of a releationship, you don't just walk up and say, "Hi, sure I'll wear your collar"!
[2008/09/02 7:57] Zealot Benmergui: which goes back to the original topic today...plan schedules
[2008/09/02 7:57] ***TF***: if you can plan schedules
[2008/09/02 7:57] ***JT***: Yes, but sometimes, the Mistress or Master promises more than he/she can deliver
[2008/09/02 7:57] Pirate Russell: it's a releationship that must be COMMUNICATED about, yes negotiated, at the start!
[2008/09/02 7:57] Pirate Russell: Most of us usually do!
[2008/09/02 7:57] Zealot Benmergui: work out what time belongs to who in multi slave relationships..know when you are available, and be honest when you aren;t
[2008/09/02 7:57] Pirate Russell: I have!
[2008/09/02 7:57] Zealot Benmergui: we promise what we HOPE to do sometimes
[2008/09/02 7:57] ***TF*** nods
[2008/09/02 7:57] Pirate Russell: Mostly in the line of time available
[2008/09/02 7:58] ***JT*** nods enthusiastically
[2008/09/02 7:58] Pirate Russell does Her best to keep to Her word, but even if Domme, is only Human
[2008/09/02 7:58] Zealot Benmergui: There is a point in a rl marriage when you realise the "fucking like banshees, whenever wherever" doesn;t work when you have kids and jobs and lives..so you plan sex...nothing wrong with doing that in Sl too
[2008/09/02 7:59] Pirate Russell: And neighbors, and inlaws, and the Police... he he
[2008/09/02 7:59] ***AR***: chuckles loudly, true and agreed
[2008/09/02 7:59] ***JT*** laughs
[2008/09/02 7:59] Zealot Benmergui: "Next wednesday dear, i will use you like a bitch in heat..but for now, lets shop a little then I need to get some work done with you kneeling close by"
[2008/09/02 7:59] ***TF***: lol
[2008/09/02 7:59] Pirate Russell: IT's called NRE or New Relationship Energy
[2008/09/02 7:59] ***AR***: lol, yes My Master....use me as a slut when I am well giggles
[2008/09/02 8:00] Pirate Russell: Aiko, I have LOTS of time before Wed! He he
[2008/09/02 8:00] Zealot Benmergui: well...you can;t have a whip in one hand and a tissue in the other
[2008/09/02 8:00] ***AR***: chuckles
[2008/09/02 8:00] ***AR***: ohhhhhhhhh
[2008/09/02 8:00] Zealot Benmergui: Now slut, before you take my massive phallus, have some warm 7-up
[2008/09/02 8:00] ***AR***: who says I like the whip lol
[2008/09/02 8:00] ***AR***: yerk
[2008/09/02 8:01] Zealot Benmergui: smiles
[2008/09/02 8:01] Pirate Russell: All kidding aside, relationships go hot and heavy at first, but NONE of us can keep that up forever, it mutates into a nice comfortable friendship, with benefits, as time goes on, IF we're lucky
[2008/09/02 8:02] Zealot Benmergui: nods
[2008/09/02 8:02] Zealot Benmergui: it is important to understand those changes
[2008/09/02 8:03] Zealot Benmergui: not ignore them, or make too much of them
[2008/09/02 8:04] Pirate Russell: Well, I have a RL commitment in about 20 min, so I'd like to wrap this up.
[2008/09/02 8:04] Pirate Russell: I feel I must appologize that I didn't prepare a lesson this week, ROUGH weekend to get it done! Friday's class @ 1pm, right here, is already planned, it's Dominance & Control, A Power Exchange Relationship
[2008/09/02 8:04] ***TF*** smiles "thank you mistress pirate for the class"
[2008/09/02 8:04] ***JT***: Thank you, Pirate.
[2008/09/02 8:04] ***AR*** smiles to Miss Russell, thank you for the time
[2008/09/02 8:05] Zealot Benmergui: *smiles..Well done dear
[2008/09/02 8:05] ***TF*** waves and poofs
[2008/09/02 8:05] Pirate Russell: My pleasure, and I look forward to you all coming back again, and remember http://collegeofkink.blogspot.com !!!!!!
[2008/09/02 8:05] Zealot Benmergui: and any of you around Monday at 6 Am Sl time, I will be speaking on The Collar, Symbol and Substance" a topic suggested by Miss ***AH***
[2008/09/02 8:05] Pirate Russell: ANd search on College in the events tab for future classes
[2008/09/02 8:05] ***AH***: who is that
[2008/09/02 8:05] ***AH***: :P
[2008/09/02 8:06] Zealot Benmergui: some hottie in the club
[2008/09/02 8:06] ***AH***: ah
[2008/09/02 8:06] ***AH*** blushes
[2008/09/02 8:08] Pirate Russell likes hotties in the club, ESPECIALLY on Tuesday!
[2008/09/02 8:08] Pirate Russell: AND FRIDAY!
[2008/09/02 8:08] ***AH*** giggles
[2008/09/02 8:08] Pirate Russell: Ciao for now, y'alll... sorry for the quick exit
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